I think my friend is depressed

So this guy, at my high school has known me for like 2 months. We sit at lunch together cause he doesn't really have any other friends, anyway, he asked me out and I declined because my parents are really strict, and he was really awkward about it. A couple weeks later he asked, hey if your parents weren't so strict would you go out with me? I said no i like you as a friend, he just said ok and walked away. Anyway, so I don't go to that school everyday only 2 days a week and so today I was having lunch, and he seemed more cheerful we don't really have that much in common and im a couple years younger and I like him only as a friend. Anyway, after lunch I said "Hey, I'm free 6th period wanna go hangout in the caf?" He said sure and we went our separate ways. 6th period rolls around and instead of going to the caf he takes me to one of the music practice rooms and im like uh......wtf is he trying to do. He puts on some music and just breaks down crying. I didn't know what was happening but I kept cool and asked what was wrong, he went on this long depressing story and I tried to comfort him as best I could, hugging and leaning on each other but I noticed something, his eyes were red but there weren't any tears falling or watering up. Maybe it's nothing but idk I think he maybe was just trying to get me to hug him or maybe even kiss him? Probably not, he did sound really depressed and he makes some depressing posts on Facebook...I just never know what to do, I want to help so bad but I don't know what to say and I don't know what to do. What do you think? Tell me in the comments.

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  • Arm0se

    Depressed people don't act like that. Some don't even seem like they are, going around smiling at everyone they see pretending everything is fine, but if you pay attention you can tell.

    He's a desperate attention whore.

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    • Dalinar

      Good to know, thank you.

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      • 53739

        he sounds bipolar

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        • Dalinar

          I've never met a bipolar person, but that was the only "mood flash" I've seen from him so idk.

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  • Thorolf

    He's probably just upset about being rejected, nothing abnormal about that.

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    • Dalinar

      maybe

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  • jimdog

    He's trying to get you to touch his penis, he's an attention seeking type depressing posts etc to try and get messages from concerned kind folk... That he can try and seduce.

    I think he just wants someone to touch his penis.

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    • Dalinar

      Thanks for the help, I'll try to keep my distance, he seemed distressed but at the same time he kinda just said the stereotypical stuff, is cause of my looks, I feel like the world is against me, etc.

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      • jimdog

        Maybe you should touch his penis a bit? It's not the worst idea in the world...

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        • Dalinar

          haha no thank you, I have a guy and we are in a relationship but we cant date because of my parents and his ex, and I really am not attracted to this guy and wouldn't mess my relationship up cause of him.

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          • jimdog

            Well I suppose that's quite a mature approach... You could touch both your unofficial and secret partners penis AND this horribly boring, attention seeking depressers penis as well. Touch them at the same time, like pretend your skiing or something. The more weeners the better.

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            • Dalinar

              that reminded me of Bo Burnham's what. show so much xD great job, I don't know if I'll do that but you have good logic, keep it up.

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