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I am a 28 female that works with a late 40s early 50s male who is married. He always comes by my workstation flirting, or we take lunch together and laugh and joke. Do you think he wants to make a move? Or is this just friendly flirting? It’s getting unbearable for me! I think about him 24/7 and want to have sexual relations with him
Well, he will probably fuck you if you ask. The next thing that usually happens is you'll get pregnant, he'll refuse to leave his wife for you, you may or may not get child support. You'll then either go batshit crazy and fuck up everyone's life, including your child's, or you will move on and proceed to have a much more difficult life than you have now.
Ummm, maybe start by asking him to have a drink after work. "Would you like to come home with me?" You know, the same old routine.
What do you talk about at lunch or in general? Do you two talk about sex or does he bring up his wife at all? If he doesn't talk about his wife, but talks about sex I think you should know the answer.
Not knowing the exact story, how many others you work with - you could be a convenient person to go to lunch with, maybe just the more normal one out of the crew? Believe it or not some guys can have women for friends only without having sex with them!
At his age he could be facing a midlife crisis and might enjoy the presence of a younger, attractive woman to hang with too.
I doubt anything besides sex and the good possibility of his wife finding out is in the cards. You don't want to ruin a family, but if it's not you do you think he'd try with someone else? Or maybe he already does?
I would love to hear what happens if anything. Keep us posted!