I think ive got mental health problems

i hate it when people think i'm gay because i'm quiet

I really think you should at least see a counselor or therapist. The reason I say this is because I read the part where you mention wanting to kill yourself. ANYTHING that makes you want to kill yourself is worth getting help with! Everything else might be livable for you, but seriously, it really can't hurt to find a good therapist or even a psychiatrist if it gets worse. But a therapist can't give you medication, so that's the best way to start, at least in my opinion ^_^

Way Normal.

You are both depressed and quite normal. I think you should see a therapist for help with the depression, but there's nothing wrong with you that can't be fixed. :) Think about it this way -- if you have reasons to feel unhappy while at home and at work, does it not make sense that you act differently there?

Without healthy food and vitamins u can lose ur mind...

I think you should live you parent's house and find an apartment for you to live by you self. Not being too involve in your house can be a problem related to you dad absence or because you don't feel comfortable with them (your mom and your step-dad), they might use to criticize you when you were younger. Find you own place so you can be you self at home.

You are like that with you friend because you are not afraid of their judgment,they make you feel like you are a part of the big family that they form. you feel more confident with them.

Maybe you are doing a job that you don't like, so find something else. You can change something that you don't like. It is not a matter of staying there and have an anger against they others, who might enjoy they work. And saying what ever you want will not make them see you any better.

You should find a way to conciliate your three behaviors. You are not three person, you just have different behavior according to where you are and people you are dealing with. You are the only one who can help your self. Don't expect that everybody will understand you, no. anyway it never exists. I thing, keeling you self it not an option, it is an act of cowardice, even with all those different opinion that you bring up around you, every body will say that they new it, you were a sick man.

would you give them that victory, I don't thing so. So get up and make the change.

I think you actually might be bipolar. Something at home is making you unhappy...something there isn't resonating with you. The fact that you swing from "down in the dumps" to all happy and funny at work tells me you have an imbalance,and it sounds like a type of bipolar. You also sound like you may be having some anxiety especially at home and at work. Get to a dr and tell them how you are feeling. They will give you something to help. Also ask them about counseling. Good luck!

people think that? because you're quiet? i never knew

you said stepdad?do you get along with him?has anything significant happened with him?and do you still have your biological dad?sounds like you got alot of stuff going on inside your head,1st thing if you are feeling suicidal talk 2 sum 1 a helpline maybe cause trust me it only lasts so long,just dont do anything drastic.i think you seriousley need 2 think about moving out you obv aint happy,n go see your doctor who could arrange some therapy GOOD LUCK

I can relate to person one... who sounds like they have a real case of depression and should look up those symptoms.... But for real this is sorta normall beacuse most of the time ppl in general are very different with there families compaired to being out... you need to get a GF and move out dude... its your best bet :)

and if it makes yoiu feel anybetter i dont know who i am either... imfact i have a friend and she is like family to me... but she sais the longer she is getting to know me the bitchier i am... and when i meat new ppl i am a totally different person... the key is to stay in control...

wow, I can totally relate!

this is common, but not normal.
these multiple personalities of yours--it sounds like you may be bipolar. my brother is too, and he's been doing much better lately, ever since he's gotten treatment. i highly recommend for you to seek professional help. it worked very well for him, it may work for you. good luck

You have most likely experienced some emotional trauma in your life and the way that your brain helps you to cope is to dissociate yourself...Basically it is like a fragmented soul breaking you off into different parts. Not quite multiple personalities because you are aware of your different sides. You are most likely emotionally stuck in time somewhere with each part. When each part comes up, ask yourself who you need to forgive in that place of yourself. Then, do your best to let go of each person and the offenses done to you from each part or 'subself'. I am doing this right now and it is very helpful. I am doing it under spiritual Christian counseling which might be different then the way you might choose to go about it, but I would encourage you to seek help. It is pretty normal and I would say that a high percentage of the population are dealing with very similar problems. It is just that people don't want to admit they are going through that stuff too.

Well i used to be like that, but not anymore.
it definitely is NOT normal, but i think it is better
to be rare and different without being depressed.
to me it sounds that you dislike being at home and like being out with people, and getting to know them.
So It doesn't sound normal but to me it doesnt sound that bad.
To other IT WILL cause u were talking a bit about suicide.

you should talk with someone that you think can advice you well, like a friend or uncle or someone that will have a long chat with you about your interest and stuff and then you can both choose if you need professional help or if its only something that will fade with time.

sounds like your bipolar or maybe have anxiety problems? i suggest help if your willing to let them mess around and try all different meds on you? its not fun but it is worth it id say (i have anxiety depression and am bipolar: woo triple threat)
but i wouldnt suggest the hospital! honestly they make it worse and so do group therepy type things. (being around other people with problems tends to rub off on you, plus making friends with suicidal people can cause lots of worries!)

You're perfectly normal. I'm guessing you're not very close with your mom. Try and talk with her, and get to know her. She'll get to know you, and you and her will be more comfortable around each other. Also, do this at work, and slowly you will see yourself become someone with ONE personality. :)

thank you for your comments means alot!

you maybe are bi-polar you could get some medication happy new year

The thing about bein different people in different situations isn't so strange, but that you think 'it would be better to die and come back as someone else' and that at points you hate your life and want to die sounds worryin, is there anyone you trust you could talk about that to? You sound depressed, would you consider seekin help from a doctor/ therapist just to see if there's anything that can help you?
Also, the thing about your friends not wantin to know you if you have problems would definitely not be true if they're good friends, choose your oldest/ closest friends and confide in them how you feel and they won't reject you : )

1 and 3 sound the same

and 2 only exists with friends.

im guessing you dont like your family or job, but you do like to hangout with your friends.

so basically you are happy when you are with people you like, and unhappy with people you dont like.

sounds normal.