I am exactly like all of you and it is so reassuring the know I am not alone if feeling so helpless with my emotions of attachment and clingyness. Please, this book helped me SO much, you need to read it. Why Men Love Bitches. It has answers for all of these everyday relationship problems. We need to back off when we least feel like it... try to detach a bit (not from him, but from the pain). My boyfriend wasnt seeing me enough or being "into me" enough and I followed the books advice and just didnt call him, and maybe even turned down an offer to hang out. now I had his attention. then he started being really into me and missing me so much and actually appreciating me as much as a think i deserve! trust me, back off and he will come back begging. DO IT!
best of luck girls, dont despair, remember that you can make yourself happy and you a strong and beautiful person and you CAN be happily independent!
What a coincidence! I am actually reading the book right now! Borrowed it from a friend. And yea, I also suffered from this obssession over my boyfriend. But my story is kinda different. I became attached to him since we had the baby. Then he started to change, trying to distant himself from me, so like any other "nice" girlfriend.. I went on to the chase. YES! Don't ever do that. Now, I begun to experiment different ways to get him back again, he's old sweet self, that is. At first, it'll be hard, it still is for me. Like let him call and text you first, that simple step goes a long way, I tell you. Don't be a nagger. One of the lessons I'm learning from "Why Men love bitches" (so far), is to not let your man feel he has a hundred percent hold of you. Take it as a challenge! If you love him.. get him back, his heart back! :)
I feel the same I hurting so much in my relationship . But what can I do ? I did the same things you did but cant help its like he's always win the game he's attic to his game so it take him to a happy way of challenge me. I just don't know what to do when I'm away from him I feel like its my fall. I'm so afraid he gonna do something to live me pp. Help I'm stuck.
hey i read ur msg n i really got a positive thought after reading it..but i wana tok 2 u personally abt my relation..i m in a long distance relation since 2 yrs.n its goin really bad nw abt 2 end....intially it was gr88 but staying in a ldr its goin worst..hes a working guy n he cant gimme tym n i keep f8ing 4 dat n nw he has stopped picking my calls n i call him like a mad gal..i m nt able 2 stay widout him nw i keep crying..i dunno hw 2 make him kum back 2 me n make my relation evergreen as earlier.help me pls..
Would you want to makes relationships with me believe me i m giving u a huge satisfaction i think u understand what i want to say i m talking about sex with you and i promise i give a full fun to your horny pussy
hey ! i am going through a really bad situation right now, worse then what we saw, i have being crying since a month and i even got sick and missed my exam just because of my boyfriend, because i am so addicted to him and he wouldn't even talk to ...and nothing matters to him anymore, i try so hard to avoid thinking about him or texting him, but its just getting all worse, i feel better reading your message and would really like to talk to you personally if it helps me out in any way
I read that book..and my bf was not happy when i bought it, but I don't care, I read it when he is not around and thanks god things has changes a lot better now. When men find that the chasing is over, they lost interest. All the best to all the lovers in the world..
I feel like my boyfriend is trying to get out of this relationship by finding things to do out side of this relationship. Its not that im clingy or obsessed with him, well maybe a little. I can go all work day without talking to to him if i have to but neither of us do. He broke my heart once before by cheating on me and by choosing to hang out with his mates over me even tho we had plans.He was also telling that girl and his mates our problems and they where telling him to leave me. We broke up for a month roughly and he came running back and its been great since. non of us has friends because we find it hard to make them, we send time away from each other, he does what he wants when he's home and so do i, but im worried that history is going to repeat it self one day if he makes new friends.
I think im obsessed with my boyfriend and i need to quit
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Girls,
I am exactly like all of you and it is so reassuring the know I am not alone if feeling so helpless with my emotions of attachment and clingyness. Please, this book helped me SO much, you need to read it. Why Men Love Bitches. It has answers for all of these everyday relationship problems. We need to back off when we least feel like it... try to detach a bit (not from him, but from the pain). My boyfriend wasnt seeing me enough or being "into me" enough and I followed the books advice and just didnt call him, and maybe even turned down an offer to hang out. now I had his attention. then he started being really into me and missing me so much and actually appreciating me as much as a think i deserve! trust me, back off and he will come back begging. DO IT!
best of luck girls, dont despair, remember that you can make yourself happy and you a strong and beautiful person and you CAN be happily independent!
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you seem like such a strong woman!!! how did everything work out for you?? how was it in the process of putting this theroy in to practice???
What a coincidence! I am actually reading the book right now! Borrowed it from a friend. And yea, I also suffered from this obssession over my boyfriend. But my story is kinda different. I became attached to him since we had the baby. Then he started to change, trying to distant himself from me, so like any other "nice" girlfriend.. I went on to the chase. YES! Don't ever do that. Now, I begun to experiment different ways to get him back again, he's old sweet self, that is. At first, it'll be hard, it still is for me. Like let him call and text you first, that simple step goes a long way, I tell you. Don't be a nagger. One of the lessons I'm learning from "Why Men love bitches" (so far), is to not let your man feel he has a hundred percent hold of you. Take it as a challenge! If you love him.. get him back, his heart back! :)
I feel the same I hurting so much in my relationship . But what can I do ? I did the same things you did but cant help its like he's always win the game he's attic to his game so it take him to a happy way of challenge me. I just don't know what to do when I'm away from him I feel like its my fall. I'm so afraid he gonna do something to live me pp. Help I'm stuck.
But isn't that really deferring to what HE wants?
hey i read ur msg n i really got a positive thought after reading it..but i wana tok 2 u personally abt my relation..i m in a long distance relation since 2 yrs.n its goin really bad nw abt 2 end....intially it was gr88 but staying in a ldr its goin worst..hes a working guy n he cant gimme tym n i keep f8ing 4 dat n nw he has stopped picking my calls n i call him like a mad gal..i m nt able 2 stay widout him nw i keep crying..i dunno hw 2 make him kum back 2 me n make my relation evergreen as earlier.help me pls..
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Would you want to makes relationships with me believe me i m giving u a huge satisfaction i think u understand what i want to say i m talking about sex with you and i promise i give a full fun to your horny pussy
hey ! i am going through a really bad situation right now, worse then what we saw, i have being crying since a month and i even got sick and missed my exam just because of my boyfriend, because i am so addicted to him and he wouldn't even talk to ...and nothing matters to him anymore, i try so hard to avoid thinking about him or texting him, but its just getting all worse, i feel better reading your message and would really like to talk to you personally if it helps me out in any way
I read that book..and my bf was not happy when i bought it, but I don't care, I read it when he is not around and thanks god things has changes a lot better now. When men find that the chasing is over, they lost interest. All the best to all the lovers in the world..
I feel like my boyfriend is trying to get out of this relationship by finding things to do out side of this relationship. Its not that im clingy or obsessed with him, well maybe a little. I can go all work day without talking to to him if i have to but neither of us do. He broke my heart once before by cheating on me and by choosing to hang out with his mates over me even tho we had plans.He was also telling that girl and his mates our problems and they where telling him to leave me. We broke up for a month roughly and he came running back and its been great since. non of us has friends because we find it hard to make them, we send time away from each other, he does what he wants when he's home and so do i, but im worried that history is going to repeat it self one day if he makes new friends.