I think i might be gay

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I am young and I know I am for this but I have been with a few guys and a few girls no more than 5 total and I've never been sure which I liked better and so I settlers for calling myself bisexual but after this year home comeing I kissed my boyfriends ex girl friend and it felt so much more .... Right than kissing my boyfriend

Now I have nothing against the gay community but I was happy as bisexual so I didn't have to face questioning my current relationship but I think my boyfriend is starting to notice something in me to.

I need help and I can't go to my friends because they would tell him and my family is strongly against the gay rights movement

Please answer

I believe you are gay 47
I don't believe you are gay 21
I am unsure 49
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  • NiceKitty
    11 years ago | pl

    You should not leave the opinion of your sexuality up to the IIN community nor the 'real life' community.
    Your sexuality is your own and it should be up to you to decide.
    You only know your true feelings.
    If you are gay, your gay.
    You don't need to tell anyone if you don't want to, until your ready.

    However, I do think it would be wise if you dumped your boyfriend. You don't need to tell him why exactly, but.. It sounded like your relationship with him is already kinda over.

    Just do what your comfortable with and what makes you happy. You don't need to please anyone else.

    Source; I'm bi.

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    • trollbabeinmycave
      11 years ago

      True dat my main squeezzzeee.

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    • kafur
      11 years ago

      yes i agree...also rembemer that although you dont mention what sex you are...boys generally DO "experiment" around the teenage years a loy, and they kiss and love etc with each other, but they end up married with opposite sex partners. So just chill, and dont take life too seriously yeat. youre still young..just enjoy life and it will unfold who you are. take care,

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    Dude, you're thinking way too much into this. Why do you feel the need to classify yourself anyway, and tell everybody what sexuality you are? I assure you, nobody fucking cares except for you. Honestly, if one of my friends was like - Dude, I suck dick sometimes. I'd just be like: OK bro, good for you.

    This is not as big a deal as your making it out to be. Just do whatever the fuck you want to do, kiss/fuck whoever you want to kiss/fuck. Just enjoy yourself, don't worry about what your official sexual title is.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Well that just sound like full on Bi-Sexual to me. You're not gay or straight. You're Bi. Plain and simple. Do you even need to question that? lol

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  • MissyLeyneous
    11 years ago

    You're probably still in the bi-curious stage. Just because kissing another girl felt more "right" than kissing your boyfriend, doesn't mean that you're instantly lezzy. It could just mean that you don't really love your boyfriend.

    Let's face it, you're probably in high school right? You have no idea what you are, and you won't know for several years, most likely. Stay safe and follow your heart.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    That's why i don't date bi girls. They always end up being gay.

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    • trollbabeinmycave
      11 years ago

      Girls cant be gay, guys on the other hand can be.

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  • Outsider21
    9 years ago

    are you a man or woman, that makes a big difference, I'd say your probably a lesbian/bi. If your a man, I would say that your definitely bisexual regardless of the fact that prefer women

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  • horstrya
    11 years ago

    im gay to but dont worry do you want to have sex

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    You could be bisexual but you must remember that sexuality is fluid. Its not black and white.

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    You should take the Kinsey Scale Test

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  • normnormal
    11 years ago

    you should not worry too much about fitting to a label, if you're unsure wait and see how things go for you. just act on instinct and what you're comfortable with. just because you fall for a guy doesn't mean you aren't a lesbian, and just because you fall for a girl doesn't mean you aren't straight. hope you figure things out!

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I agree with Missy. Not enough info to know what you are. You have to sort it out, and be honest with everyone, including yourself. It will take courage.

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  • keef
    11 years ago

    You're definitely a lesbian. It's cool though, lesbians are cool.

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