I think i'm shallow.

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Title says it all really. I wouldn't date someone who is an asshole or an idiot just because they were good looking, but I can't lie, I like the fact that my boyfriend is so attractive. It's not why I love him and I wouldn't leave him if his looks changed or he was in an accident, but I'm proud of it and I like it about him. Furthermore, even though I deeply love him for who he is, I do notice stuff like if he needs a haircut or puts on a couple pounds - I don't say anything or act differently, it's not a big deal or anything but I do notice.

Should you notice stuff like that when you are in love? It doesn't change how I feel about him, but I do notice. He really doesn't seem to notice or care when I'm not wearing make up or when I'm looking rough.

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  • California_Cobra
    7 years ago

    My ex-boyfriend was really hot when I first met him, but of course it wasn't the only thing I loved about him. He was skinny, but had a 6-pack and looked like Adam Levine (though I know a lot of women don't find him attractive, I definitely do) and after about a year, maybe less he started putting on weight as he neared 30. I noticed, but still thought he was hot as f**k! I didn't care that he gained a little weight or had a few grey hairs. In some weird way, I found it even hotter. I was kinda glad he gained the weight because sex with a super skinny dude is not as easy or satisfying than one that's gained enough weight to make it comfortable and not fear you're going to crush them even when you yourself are thin.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    You sound fine, and actually quite balanced to me!

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