I think i'm in love with...

I think I'm in love with my daughter's best friend! I'm a 29 year old man and my daughter is 14. I broke up with my wife just before she committed suicide when I was 20. My daughter's friend, Louise, is 15 and very very hot! She flirts with me when my daughter isn't in the room and once she even offered me a fiver for sex. So, I'm stuck. No-one my age wants to love me and Louise is perfect in every way. I think I'm totally in love. So what shall I do? Is this normal?

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41% Normal
Based on 179 votes (74 yes)
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Comments ( 40 )
  • Ninebitacid

    Go for it, that way you get a hot 15 year old and 8 to 10 years in prison :D

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  • confusiongirl.

    wait til' she's sixteen then bone the hell out of her.

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    • LonelyWomen

      You mean 18 -_-

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  • Lonely92

    dude thats messed up... erm all you need to do is think, if you do, she will obviously brag about it to her friends, dont give in, i know you probably find it tempting at the moment but think about it in the long run, you dont want to end up in prision over this jailbait do you?

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  • teamemma

    this is gross. GET SOME HELP MATE :)

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  • PinkPuss

    men are so selfish don't traumatize this child please

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  • xomniex

    "Why don't you have a seat over there" - Chris Hansen

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    • AAbatteries

      Best answer ever. LMFAO

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  • axehole

    oh grow up you shitrag.....youre some 15 year old kid who whacks off while thinking about fucking his sister.

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  • MESOMIKE

    Sexual attraction is normal. Period. The question is: Is it appropriate? legally, to act on it, no.

    Many "fantasies" are perfectly normal, but NOT to be acted on.

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  • terrywood

    If I could join in i wouldnt have a problem with it.

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  • Sean021021

    Wonder why ur single now!

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  • An0nym0us9001

    Norm

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  • ConcernedMonky

    sounds like the movie american beuty

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  • anon01

    I'm going to say no on this one.
    It's wrong enough to fuck under age teen aged girls. But think of you'r daughter, that's her best friend you want to fuck.

    Are you willing to ruin their friendship to get a good fuck?

    And besides from all of that, it's also wrong by law.

    It's not love, anxiety, it's fear of growing any older not being loved by another woman you'r age or older.

    You're afraid of going through things alone.
    That's why you yearn so much for the compassion of others.

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  • hello my name is chris hanson.
    how are today?
    why don't you have a seat right over there.

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  • HaywoodUSuchmeov

    American Beauty.

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  • cigarettes

    @individualityx; THIS

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  • individualityx

    Watch the movie "American Beauty"

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  • tinsleytemptress

    Uhm I understand perhaps loving someone with such an age gap, honestly I do. She being you daughter's est friend is a little unorthadox, but again, i can relate in that my best friend's uncle fell in love (mostly lust) with me. If you love her, like for real, don't do anything, it'll scar her forever. TRUST ME.

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    • You may be 'totally in love' but from the sounds of things, she's totally-in-lust. Watch out for yourself and don't do anything stupid, you could hurt her AND yourself. Plus, if you're caught, there's gaol-time as well. Is it really worth risking everything?

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      • Btw, with the last comment I was agreeing with 'tinsleytemptress', not adressing them.

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  • love3420

    This is a bad idea, dont even think about it.
    I'm sure you kind find someone that is just the same way around your age....

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  • alf2010

    I say go for the pussy man I would.

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  • terrywood

    I'd fuck her for sure. Just think how good your cock would feel buried in that tight teenage pussy. Your daughter will get over it and may even want some herself. If you're worried about it, just get her to blow you till she turns the legal age, I guess.

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  • noterykka

    Let's pop some perspective on this:

    You're twenty-nine; she's fifteen. This is sick.
    You're thirty-two; she's eighteen. This is awkward, but not sick. Where's the logic, exactly?

    Why you're in love with a fifteen-year-old, I don't know; it sounds to me like there are definitely some adjustment issues going on here. The romantic in me wants to say that the heart wants what the heart wants -- but, then I think about how you're twice her age and in a place of authority over her... please avoid.

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  • ProfWSFate

    Move to New Hampshire where legally you can marry at 13 with parents permission. Marry the girl, have your daughter hate you for the rest of your life. Louise will "wake-up" in a few years and want out of the marriage. You will be left alone.

    Enjoy your life.

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  • jmzry

    And I fucking love American Beauty, That movie is amazing! :)

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  • Ok. You need to tell her that if she really likes you then to tell her parents so they didn't think that you raped her or sexualy harrased her.If she can't do that then try to move on the best you can even try showing her that you moved on shes get jelious and tell her parent or gaurdian
    *jemmey*

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  • LasNoches7

    don't do it if you love your daughter you would just move on and meet someone your own age. Think about all the problems it would bring to your daughter...maybe your wifes death has affected you , you should try counseling

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  • Burrito_Dick

    you are dirt str8 up dirt.

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  • Masokisstic

    Well think about it after u masturbate as many times as u can so u can get all of ur lust and hormones out of u and then u can think clearly and rationally. Yes a young girl is probably hot and thoughts of being with one is probably almost more than u can handle but think about this: How would u feel if she was your daughter at her best friends house with her best friends dad?Does that make your stomach turn?I hope u will seriously realize ur hormones are obscuring ur rational here.It wold b Very wrong in my opinion.Shes way too young to even know what love is & will only end up hurt or she may think shes in love for a while and then one day when she has matured she will wonder wtf she is doing with u & will leave u or report u to the cops. Also think what would u do if u impregnated her?What would ur daughter think?What would the 15yr olds parents think & what would you think if ur daughter came home & told u she was pregnant from her best friends 29yr old dad. If u really feel you have to be with a young girl, then maybe u should try to figure out why u think that?Of course only ponder all of this after u have masterbated urself to the point of no sexual desire.Then think:prison, pregnancy,shame,hurt,& why would u want to be with someone so immature?ya sex is great but not worth ruining a young girl forever &then being haunted by guilt & perversion for the rest of ur life.If u still have to be with a young girl then maybe u should go move to a country where it is legal or else GO GET LAID BY SOMEONE CLOSER TO UR OWN AGE!Sorry for the yelling but come on!Why cant u think beyond your LUST!Think about ur daughter &I hope it is not in a nasty way.No offense meant but you are in lust with a child.U need 2go get laid by someone who is over 18.just my opinion,everyone has one just like a we all have assholes lol.I understand shes hot but that is a situation where You will get burned & u dont need to do that to you,her or ur daughter.Besides there are plenty of hot women who would love you for real &not just in fake fantasy land of a 15yr olds mind.Good luck

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  • combatgal856

    think of your daughter. what would she say? is this girl really in love with you or is she despret for sex?because if she wanted you she wouldn't have to pay for it. you'll find someone one day this is probably just a phase

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    • thatoneguyagain

      good advise try to find someone who loves you not wants to give you a quickie in the bathroom.

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  • xxObscurities

    Love is love, it doesn't know age.

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    • DYNASTY21

      So youre saying that if your 5 year old daughter fell in love with an 18 year old man then its ok for them to have sex. Get real! you are sick too.

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    • jmzry

      Correction, yes love is love... you are free to love who ever! but underage sex is illegal and just kind of awkward...

      Plus didnt the guy say his daughter was 14? I could understand if he really liked the girl for more than just sex...but I doubt he does and that could creep his daughter out. Be a father dude!!!

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  • DYNASTY21

    look all of you are sick. This man just admitted to being a pervert. He's 30 years old, twice the girls age and is in love with her. Think of all of your daughters and whose friend parents want to have sex with her. the dude is sick and deserves a pic on the milk carton saying keep away from small gils.LOL

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  • Honestly, go for it. I was once in the same situation and years later, my girlfriend (The mother) turned out to be cheating the whole time while I worked two jobs to save their home. I do regret not going with the daughter as she was rather hot and just so the age thing isn't gross.

    She was 15 and I was 27. I tend to date older at the time because, get this - I hated the game playing of younger women.

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    • You are so full of shit Bud.

      You the poster are a poor excuse for a father. Put your dick away and think with your brains. You were offered the fiver because your daughter's friend has no respect for you. She sees you as a boy ho. That you think you are in love shows you are the idiot she imagines.

      Go date someone your own age and try to grow up.

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