I think i love my best friend, iin?

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I am a girl and recently i have been getting feelings for my best friend, thing is that he has a girlfriend and I will not break up his relationship as it is making him happy. what do i do? I thought he didn't care about me until last night when I went to the cinema with him and other people... and i ended up holding hands with a boy next to me and when my best friend found out he went ballistic! what does this mean?!

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  • myweirdself16
    12 years ago

    right now i sort of have a crush on one of guy friends, but he has a girlfriend too...and they seem so happy together! i actually usd to think he was gay until now

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  • ronihilly
    12 years ago

    Sweetheart, your situation is the DEFINITION of normal. Two of my daughters cried their eyes out to me over this. He has feelings for you, dear. Fact, not opinion. My advice..I know its hard but be patient. Do not lose your best friend. His reaction to you with someone else is saying that he cares for you so much that no guy is good enough for his friend. Respect your friend, dont put him in that spot if possible. You will either end up together or BF for Life! You win either way, the pain is worth it. Big daddy hug from me. It will be ok, promise.:)

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  • dog9012
    12 years ago

    its normal u guys r close and u may get feeling 4 him it has happened to me and all u ave to do to stop those feelings is stay away for him for a while

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  • What'sMyName?
    12 years ago

    How many times must the same story be posted?

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    • sunnybeaches
      12 years ago

      it's different for everyone :P

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    ...how sweet! idk if its normal but i know how you feel. im a girl and i have a friend that also a girl and does the samething he did when im with other people. maybe you should just ask him.

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    • sunnybeaches
      12 years ago

      but what if I ask him and things become too awkward and i lose him?

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      • OnlyTheTruth
        12 years ago

        Then you wouldn't have a problem anymore... you would have your answer.

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