I think i love her but she's my best friends girl.

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Well this is kind of wired but I know this girl and i know she likes me and I like her, but she is my best friends girl. Well we meet at school and she was the first person I talked to and she showed me around. Shortly after I met my best friend Jacob and we became really close. we all started to hang together and me and her were kinda of friends with benefits. As time went on My friend Jacob started to say that she was hot(he didn't know we were doing things). He started to flirt with her and I guess I got angry probably cause I got attracted to her. well I let it go. Then they started dating so we had I stop our little sessions. The thing that made me really mad is that he was a complete douche to her and I couldn't stand it. Almost ounce a week I had to come over and kick the shit out of him and I have had enough. I keep telling her that she needs to leave him but she won't and one of these days I'm going to get so angry I'm going to beat him to death.

I don't know what to do but I just can't sit back and watch.

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  • golden_showers
    9 years ago

    tell him you used to bone her

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    She seems to want to be with him, just stay out of it. Sorry to say this but sometime people seem to chose their own misery ...

    What you can do is to come clear to her and tell her that you want her to be yours and that you wish for her to leave him.
    Sadly a lot of people are together with bad people just to avoid being alone ...

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Keep out of the relationship.

    No matter how many times a friend tries to protect another friend, only they themselves can make the decision to leave someone.

    Besides, most girls in a bad relationship tend to ignore advice anyway. It takes a slap from reality to realize how delusional one's 'love' for someone can be.

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    • ReginaFalange
      8 years ago

      Exactly.
      Unless she's in real danger, you shouldn't do anything.

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  • shaggy145
    9 years ago

    this is what you do
    1. get a gun
    2. blow his brains out
    3. sleep with her one last time
    4. go to prison for murder
    5. get ass raped by a guy named Big Jim

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  • DarQness
    9 years ago

    she left you for him, you both liked each other first, correct? your friend didn't hold a gun to her head and say date me. she did it out of free will. i believe there is nothing but trouble if you stick around either of them.

    its time you move on before you throw your life away, or wind up killed in the process when trying to beat him to death. even if you do manage to beat him to death, you'll go to prison, and she most likely will see you as a monster.

    either way its going to be a lose, lose. its best to take the path with the least amount of violence.

    also, truth be told you should of said something. he just ups and dates her, ask yourself why it didn't go that way for you?

    and why did she accept when she surely had something with you? i'm telling you, don't mess with it because there isn't anything but trouble there.

    its time instead of sitting back to watch, get the hell out of it completely.

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