I think i like someone who is already elder than me and is married.

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Hey, I'm a 21-y'o' guy, studying in college, from couple of days i was thinking about, there is this person who lives near by, say just in front of my place, i think i like her, i mean i just like her, that face of her that smile that eyes that voice. Everything of her i just like her so much. Just a little bit of her look or voice makes me happiest person on earth. Even when i'm bat shit angry or tensed or like that just her mere look of her or voice cheers me up. problem is she is already marrried she has two cute little kids, working women. I like to keep looking at her and listening her voice whenever she calls me for some help. I think about her all day long. I like her each and everything. Wish i had some really good and trsutworthy friend here in real life to talk about her in real life. So am so confused and worried that i'm doing something terribly wrong, is it normal that i like someone who is elder than me, already married and has a happy married life and kids. I'd really appreciate if people here can guide and help me out.
Sorry for my english is not that good.

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  • CheyChey
    9 years ago

    Yes it's normal, it's called a crush humans have been experiencing this burning desire since the beginning of time. She's married, you'll find another crush. you're 21, you'll live.

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    • S211
      9 years ago

      ^Forgot to mention its already been more than 1 year, still i cant stop thinking about her :\

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  • Schindlerww
    9 years ago

    Keep it in your pants, my friend. It's not nice having to deal with an angry husband

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    • S211
      9 years ago

      Yea you are right, & sometimes feel am being a terrible and disgusting person b'cuz of this :(

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      • Schindlerww
        9 years ago

        You are not terrible and you are not disgusting. It's called just 'having a penis' :)

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        • S211
          9 years ago

          But i never said that i just want to be physical with her. I never ever touched her even :\

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    She's married, leave her alone.

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    • S211
      9 years ago

      Yea understand and very well i know best is to leave her alone and distract my mind far far away from her, i just cant figure out how.

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  • 213
    9 years ago

    Get yourself a girlfriend, you will see those thoughts about your neigbour will fade

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    • S211
      9 years ago

      Already had 2-3, broke up with them already T_T

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      • 213
        9 years ago

        Ok go for it but you might be playing a dangerous game .realy you won't have her

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        • S211
          9 years ago

          Nah!! i dont think i should go for it i know i cant get her, i mean she is already well settled in a lovely and happy looking family i dont wanna destroy or screw things for her, or dont want to do things b'cuz of which she later starts to hate me. I think i should try to move on and distract my mind away from her, but really idk how :(

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          • 213
            9 years ago

            Yeah go stay somewhere else for a while

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            • S211
              9 years ago

              Dude i aint lying but this is exactly what i was thinking from a couple of days, right now i have to appear for my college final year's exams, so i was thinking to move to my cousin brother's place after m exams are done. So you think staying away for a while would wwork? For how long? :\
              Sorry if i'm talking like an idiot :(

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  • 213
    9 years ago

    Try by all means to let it go

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    • S211
      9 years ago

      Well...Tell me how to? I mean same thing i also want to do... its just that i cant distract my mind away from her T_T

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  • peterrabbyt
    9 years ago

    You sound to me like a closet gay...try sucking a cock or seven and get back to us on here.

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    • S211
      9 years ago

      You sound to me like a closet moron...try keeping your shitty advice with yourself and dont get back to us on here.

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  • hokisgurl
    9 years ago

    Sometimes you desire what you think u can't achieve for yourself You are attracted to her cause deep down you think you can't achieve a nice loving wife and two kids Let me tell you this be the person you want to have in a relationship work at that and your set

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    • S211
      9 years ago

      Dude....zzzzz I never said i want to have those kids of her -_-
      & i also i never thought the way you are saying like cant have a wife or kids...nope i never thought like that, its just that i kinda like her idk why exactly, yea attracted to her...a bit, but also i don't want to do anything which is wrong or bad, i want to distract my mind from her. But hey, i admit second half of your comment, "i must be the person i want to have in my life/relationship".

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