I think i am obsessed

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I'm 20 and I have 7 months with my boyfriend. He's about perfect and i love him oh.. so much.
we work togeher, and he has lived with me almost the entire 7 months..
except for 3 different ocassions when he left to visit his mom. i felt sad on those days but i thought it was normal. 3 weeks ago he left for two days, and i fell asleep while crying. i was so sad for those 2 days. the week later he left 2 days also and i felt the same so i talked to him and explained that i believe i have some kind of dependency on him. so in order to help me we agreed he will leave more than regular every week. but we also decided that we wanted to move in together and that will be in the next two months.. i love him and i really want to move out like NOW. I still cry when im not with him but is less. I think I'm getting the hold of it. So im really worried that if we do I might get like I was before...is it normal to feel this way?
I do need to talk so if anyone would like to you're very welcome..<3

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  • cda218
    13 years ago

    Do the opposite of the chick from Twilight and you're allll good

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    • Ms.Caffinated
      13 years ago

      lmao!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It's normal, but it's not healthy. You emotionally depend on him, and trust me this happened to me once, it's not good. Your emotions depend on him, you need to learn how to control your own emotions and feelings. Imagine if one day something happens to him, you'll probably react the wrong way, or wont know what to do.

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    • Bartholomew
      13 years ago

      Floydzcloud is right (I couldn't find like one word to seperate from your name so it'd seem like we're chummy; sorry...(I would've used cloud but it's at the end and that just didn't seem right.))
      Find something fulfilling which you like doing but that doesn't involve him and do it. Then you'll know what it feels like, or even that it's possible, to be content without him.

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        I just made it up.

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  • lamartin
    13 years ago

    It is normal u just in love, be stong don't show him that he is your everything. Try to make friends, girl friends or you will lose him... Good luck,,,,

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  • Beastest123
    9 years ago

    No it's not normal you are crazy you need to go to an asylum

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  • IDontAskMuch
    13 years ago

    I feel the same way about my husband and we have been together just over two years but then I know I rely on him emotionally because when we met I was heavily depressed on on a high dose of meds 375mg. He helped me through it by loving me and caring about me and for always being there for me. He gave me what I believed I could never have and that was a future. When his at work I feel like apart of me is missing and I hate it. I have tried to preoccupy myself especially with our 9 month son but his constantly on my mind. I crave his love and attention.

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