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I think I’m asexual but I want to have kids in the future. I did have a crush on someone before when I was like 9 or 10 but it wasn’t even serious and I got over him in a couple weeks or so. I did try to date but I can’t feel anything other than friendship. And I can’t imagine myself having sex with someone. Although I want to have kids and become a Mom. Is this normal?
There are loads of options for you to have kids that don't involve having sex. Hopefully you can find one that works for you in the future!
So you’re a virgin and afraid of sex. That doesn’t make you asexual. Have sex, you’ll like it. Parenthood will come later.
Asexuals aren't afraid of sex. I'm not asexual, but I'm aromantic so I get why people don't desire things. For me I have no interest in relationships. It's not because I am afraid of them or I don't think I can get one. I tried it before but it just wasn't something that does it for me. I do like taking women on dates often though and they often ask me to be their boyfriend, which seems to upset them when I turn that down, but it's actually because I would find a relationship burdening.