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I'm a guy, i can talk to guy friend a guy i hate or anyone i don't know better then i can talk to my female friends, im literally just silent when there around, and to make it worse on of them is my girlfriend!
Is this normal?
It's definitely just a social stigmatism that you need to work on! Build your confidence with the opposite sex.
teach me your ways. Please.
Yea, but in all seriousness, I feel the same way until I really start getting to know the girl. I am able to talk to the women just as much but when I first meet them my first instinct is to get in their pants so it's all suggestive and flirty talk bullshit.
I will not discuss certain things about myself to women that I will to men because I fear that the woman will see that as a weakness which will get in the way of me getting in their pants.
Once I know them for a while and I am officially friends with them I say whatever the hell I want due to the fact that the chances of getting into a girl's pants after you are friends with them is slim to none.
This is how my life is filtered between girls I have sex with and girls who are my friends. Unfortunately, the only purpose to have hot girls as merely friends is in order to attract other hot girls who you don't know very well as targets to get into their pants. This is because when hot women see a guy with other hot women they see it as a form of preselection.
Completely normal. It will change the more you hang out with them.
Why would you want to talk to one? If you can get a GF without talking, count yourself lucky.