I swear that i'm over him, but i still wonder?

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Okay, so I was really in love with my best guy friend during the period in which he dated my other really close friend(the first time). I tortured myself with the feeling until I finally told another close friend, but she didn't give me any advice. However, I felt the feeling was over. A few months after, me and the guy had a heart-to-heart conversation about dating and girls/guys ect. It was brought up and I just blurted out that I used to like him, I finally felt free of the miserable feeling, and was relieved. Now the guy and the girl are dating again after a short period of break-up, but they don't really seem to like each other. Me and him have become really close and I still think about the time of when I liked him, but don't want to go back to that. So basically, I got over the feeling but not the person. (Maybe it's because I don't really like anyone now?) That's normal, right?

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Get another friend and suck him off and swallow his goo.

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  • andrian007
    14 years ago

    Don't impose any boundaries on yourself. You shouldn't be telling yourself that you "don't want to go back to that". Why do you find that so objectionable? You might as well say that liking someone or falling in love is an awful thing when it's clearly not. Just take it naturally and see what happens next. Be open-minded!

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