I suck at kissing (i'm an adult)?

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I recently came to the realization that I'm not good kisser, after thinking to myself.

No one's told me that I'm a terrible kisser, except for an adult who told me when I was younger, that I wasn't bad and I just needed some more work.

My first kisses were the result of experimentation with a peer, when we were kids. It wasn't good but, we didn't complain.

The only kisses I've had since then were platonic and terrible. My lips had no life to them. They were lazy! I couldn't pucker. My lips were like a board!

I'll be 20 very soon. I really need to practice but, I don't know where to get it. I tried kissing my hand when I was younger but, I was terrible.

There's no where that I can get practice because, I have very deep feelings for a very dear friend of mine and it wouldn't be right if I practiced with someone else!

We've kissed before but, it was supposed to be platonic. I really don't want to make a fool out of myself if we ever end up kissing romantically.

Sorry for the length. IIN?

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RoseIsabella

8 years ago

Kissing that isn't just a peck isn't Platonic.

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  8 years ago
  
  I see...
  
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Nokiot9

8 years ago

You just need to relax and take your time when you're kissing someone. The worst thing someone can do while kissing someone else is try to swallow their face (besides the projectile vomit). Just keep your lips soft, not too much tongue. and breathe through ur nose. Oh and don't make eye contact. It's just awkward lol

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  8 years ago
  
  Thanks.
  
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chained_rage

8 years ago

I suck at doing the robot

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  8 years ago
  
  Say it isn't so, Mr. Roboto!
  
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Ellenna

8 years ago

It's your nervousness that's the problem, not your kissing technique. Try focussing on the other person and not yourself, just take it slowly, you don't have to prove anything

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  You're right. I've always had a crippling nervousness with people when it comes to varying forms of intimacy. I'm emotionally reserved and not all that comfortable with (my) sexuality. I panic. There's so much that could go wrong. I suppose I could take something (legal) to relax, but none of the things I've taken have allowed me to relax in such a way.
  
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  - mlbryan44
    
    8 years ago
    
    How about sucking cock? Does that make you nervous?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      I try not to think about it too deeply.
      
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  - Ellenna
    
    8 years ago
    
    Have you thought of therapy?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      For my sexuality? I've considered it since I saw your comment. I just feel so awkward talking about it, like I'm somehow overreacting.
      
      With my previous therapist, we briefly talked about sexuality. I ended up feeling as though I was getting pressured into fitting in under "gay". It wasn't a pleasant experience.
      
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      - Ellenna
        
        8 years ago
        
        No I wasn't thinking of that, for your low self-esteem around this
        
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NeofelisNebulosa

8 years ago

I used to think I was bad at kissing, and I didn't much care for it. Then I met my current lover; we have great chemistry and it definitely shows when we make out. My advice: don't try to go too fast or crazy like they do in movies. Gently nip and ever-so-softly suck the other person's tongue and lips. Focus on the bottom lip because that is the fullest. And just relax when you do it.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  That's another problem, I tend to get really nervous. When I get nervous, I do stupid, embarrassing crap that I later end up regretting.
  
  Thanks, I'll keep this in mind. :)
  
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Diver2

8 years ago

I would love to eat your cunt and suck you off until you cum in my face Pretty Lady!

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jethro

8 years ago

I suck at not laughing at posts like these and the funny responses. It makes me feel more normal than usual... Keep it up.

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mlbryan44

8 years ago

Do you suck at sucking cock too?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  I've never tried.
  
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  - mlbryan44
    
    8 years ago
    
    I have a nice cock that you can suck on and I am a good kisser and can guide you in that area too. Also I am very good at fucking, so if you want we can go there too.
    
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regisphilbin

8 years ago

20 is not an adult dummy

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  8 years ago
  
  Then, what is?
  
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I suck at kissing (i'm an adult)?