I suck at hooking up with girls

With girls, i am either way too up front or am a total wimp and never make the first move. Is it normal?

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Based on 72 votes (57 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • (:sweet:)

    Dont matter who makes the first move as long as someone makes it.

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  • EmmGirl

    Hmm sit next to her make simple comments on the game to her then get friendlier introduce yourself and just keep talking to her throughout the whole time but not so much where it's annoying and let her start some conversation too. Then when the game is over tell her it was nice talking to her and meeting her tell her you guys should " chill " sometime or text to get to know each other better as friends then ask for her number and I am pretty sure she will give it to you. When she does wait two days to text her. (:

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  • YourLittleVampire

    Girls love confidence, decent sence of style and a cheesy chat up line ^_-. Always pass a compliment and a conversation will start. Easy as pie ^_-

    YourLittleVampire

    xXx

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  • You're just trying to 'hook up'? Blah. I disapprove.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    Just talk to them like you would a friend and have a conversation with them the same way. Don't be afraid of them!

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  • DannyKanes

    Agreed with Emgirl :-)

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    • Me too

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  • Thats great advice. I will be sure to follow it.

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  • Hey, so i am the guy who posted the comment. Thanks for the advice everyone. So this girl who
    i find attractive will be at the same soccer game
    that i will be at. We are both spectators. She probably doesnt know me, so if i ever wanted to talk to her and make something happen, i would have to ask for her phone number sometime during the game. How can i work her up to giving me her number so soon? Thanks in advance for any answerers.

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  • juggalette

    I love!

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  • PoisonFlowers

    And remember that confidence doesn't equal being a dick. You have to see how she responds so that you know if it's too much and need to slow down or if she's into you.

    Also, if you get past your nervousness and make that move anyway, it's appreciated!

    It's normal though - loads of people are like that.

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  • wreckd

    Haha!

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  • DannyKanes

    ^ See? I told you :-)

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  • wreckd

    ^^^ Tis true!

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  • DannyKanes

    All you need is confidence. Women love confidence :-)

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