I struggle to talk to girls

Whenever I'm talking to a girl there seems to be an awkward silence, or I just end up saying random stuff. I wish I knew things to talk about, be more chill, ask her on a date, thebn finally go out with her. Please help(girls)

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  • Ask her things about herself. Let her do all the talking.

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  • dappled

    Don't ever ask a closed-ended question, i.e. something that can be answered yes or no or six or whatever. Ask about how girls feel about something. Encourage them to be expansive. And whatever else you do, make sure you listen. Every single one of us is born with two ears and one mouth. There is no clearer sign that we should listen twice as much as we talk.

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  • Fuck a fat chick

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  • I agree with all of the above...

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  • CountryRoads

    You just have to jump in and see what works. It sucks at first getting rejected and all that, but if you practice you'll learn your own style and method.

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  • Like a few other people said, just make the conversation all about her. If you do that then she will catch on that you kinda dig her. So if you DO like her, then try that.

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  • andrian007

    Definitely. There are ways to make her do all the talking. In that way, you don't have to say anything.

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