I stopped masturbating

so, i started masturbatin very,very early, but can't tell for sure, around 7, because i did it before school started, and it started at 7,now i'm 20.
Now, since than, i have been totally masturbation addicted. Sometimes i have did it 3 times a day, and sometimes once in a 3 days...
Thing is, i realised that i don't feel it as i taught i used to, so i stopped 10 months ago.
I wanted to make sure when i loose my virginity it will feel better because when you do something alot, the feeling is not so intense as when you don't do it.
I wanted to make sure that i can control myself, and now 9 months after, i don't want to screw up the celibat by my hand, but as i'm pretty much not social person, i taught of going to some hooker!
Now here is some nasty sh*t,should i save my virginity for some girl of my life,which probably won't show up!,or it doesn't matter...
advices?
HELP!

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  • Biggest question is, why do you care? I share your ideology about the feeling getting better from lack of doing it or losing sensitivity from constant "abuse" but you are putting way to much emphasis on an "EH" problem.

    Just tell your first sexual partner that she is your first and no matter what, your not going to be that good so just relax. She will be okay with it and feel honored that your first was with her.

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  • chunkybongo

    i think you should start jerking off again

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    • nkwacky

      Bingo

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  • OtherSide

    It's unhealthy to not ejaculate for so long. You'll end up with rotten 10-month old sperm cells making mutant babies.

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  • Cosmicgiggle

    Do not stop masturbating because of this obsession of saving it. It's part of a mans wellness to ejaculate often. Trust me, I know. If it's been that long, when you do masturbate, you probably won't be completely hard, you'll cum then have an orgasm (possibly an intense one). But it f's your shit up and takes time for it all to working ad a te again.

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  • whyamisoparanoid

    seeing as you obviously value your virginity, i wouldn't go and throw it away. who says there's anything wrong with masturbating. i mean, sometimes it can cause guilt, but i'm still not certain there's anything in the world wrong with it. i know it might not bring you complete satisfaction because you're probably craving the physical and emotional interaction of a human being... but don't give in and throw it all away, you never know who you'll meet and then wind up regretting having meaningless sex.
    take care.

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