I still love my high school girlfriend!

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So I knew this girl like 6 years ago. She was the most amazing person I've ever meet, and I went to school everyday just to see her and hang out. Then I moved, and I never told her I loved her from the moment I saw her-like head over heels type love. Now, through all the relationships I've had since, no one seems as awesome as she was, and I find myself comparing all the girls I date to her. Even my last relationship, witch lasted 3 years, ended and I still love her more then my ex. I can't help but think about her all the time, but I can't just tell her, "Hey, remember me, we hung out together 6 years ago, I love you." Plus she's married now and it's such a big deal to me still! Is this normal? What should I do?

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  • Pozzingtonofpozzingtonmanner
    14 years ago

    i know how u feel, but its more or less impossible, shes probably chainged to much, you have to more on, maby ul find some one better, i fancyd a girl like 4 years ago, but she moved, shes moved back now, and iv felt the thud of seeing her again, and it was still there, but i told myself she myst have chainged and why if i liked hes so much, why dident i try keeping in contact, but my new girfriend is grate, we have been togethter nerly half a year.

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    • CarlWinslow989
      14 years ago

      Love sucks. Fortunately for you there are 6.5 billion people in the world and more than half of them are women. Chances are, she's not the only one who will make you feel this way.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    High school sweethearts always will have a certain pull over you. I still care a lot for mine. She will always be the one that got away. Slipped through my fingers and to this day I regret it. I remember all the things we did together, all the places we went, all the laughs and good times we had. I miss her and she does me. Unfortunately, life has plans of it's own and some things just aren't meant to be. No matter how we covet them.

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  • KaffeInjection
    11 years ago

    Look.. You can only trust yourself in the first place.. So get along and move on, if you base your life on one girl you met in High School you need to get over it :)

    Of course everyone is gonna need somebody by their side at one point in life, but "Girls" & Woman is not what it's all about. Go eat some Sushi, get drunk and listen to the cure.. Pick flowers and listen to the cure. LIVE alittle!

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  • foxyfox
    13 years ago

    you should move on, not to be harsh but you're worried about a non-problem

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  • rockhead
    13 years ago

    I hope you find someone that makes you happy, and that you can like her EVEN more. I'm really really sorry man..

    I'm really... i wouldn't say in love, maybe i am, i cant stop thinking about her. but I really like this girl.. i have talked to her once already and she liked me back then, i could tell. and i liked her too.. unfortunately i had to stop seeing her. I'm able to see her now quite often, but i haven't talked to her. idk why... shes so pretty though and i really like her. i guess I'm scared that shes with someone else and dnt wanna get hurt.. but i dnt want something like this to happen to me. I'm really going to try to talk to her... I hope i can...

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  • xtrinhx
    13 years ago

    I hate it when I know what's you mean, I'm only 15 and yet am really caution when its went down to guys. I carefully observe them, and not letting them get to me. Regardless, I fell in love with a my bestfriend. Life's not fair.

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  • LuffySp
    13 years ago

    Well, if she's married its time to move on. I'm sorry but she'll always be your "What If" girl. You don't want to ruin her marriage. If you really love her.

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  • pinkperson
    14 years ago

    you know unfortunately i know what you mean:/ i have known this guy since second grade and it kinda sucks cuz we are still just friends=0

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