I still like someone after a long period of no interaction?

So, to start, I have someone I really like (Obviously).

Last year, we only saw each other in math class. Our first impressions on each other were not the best. I pictured him as an annoying dork and he most likely pictured me as the video game freak (Grand Theft Auto, anyone?).

Although, after sitting next to one another in math class for pretty much the entire year, I developed feelings for him, and (most likely) vice versa. I never confessed though. Neither did he. Now, since I could not contact him over the Summer and he is not in any of my classes this year, I have no real interaction with him besides the occasional greeting when we pass each other in the hall. I think he has gotten over me, assuming he ever liked me in the first place.

I can't wrack up the nerve to go up and talk to him. When I do, there's usually nothing to talk about and it gets awkward. Plus, he is already flirting with another girl, and I would feel guilty if I got in the way of anything. My parents prohibit dating for religious reasons. (Him and I are both muslim. No, we are not stereotype terrorists, if you were thinking that. And I don't wear that scarf, nor study my religion much. I only follow a few religious rules such as no pork, no romantic acts before getting married, etc., so it doesn't play a big role in this.)

I was hoping to stay close friends with him if not anything more. But he is apparently not interested.

I am unsure of what I should do as of now. I would ask my friends for help, but they specialize in video games and not romance, and apparently gave me the worst advice.

Basic Question: What should I do?

Forget about him 6
Try to talk to him again 17
Wait for him. If he's yours, you'll see him again eventually right? 4
Other (Comment below) 3
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Comments ( 4 )
  • Holzman_67

    Some things are worth holding onto, others you have to let go. Listen to your heart.

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  • kitty77

    Ok seriously this happened to me, right until the end of high school, when I got a boyfriend. He confessed that he has always liked me. This made me guilty for not asking and the fact that I was already going out with someone else didn't really help. Just ask if has the same feelings as you do.

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  • uhhyeahidk

    I think your main option is forget about him, but trying to talk to him more is also ok. BUT. if he still isn't interested after that, you have to forget about him. It is not worth your time to sit around fantasizing about something that won't happen. good luck <3

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  • peterr

    I found out that he is a closet cock sucker so don't worry, he is with another man not another woman.

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