I spoiled someone's life

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i am a married male having a 4 years boy.almost everything is fine,but memories of my past are continously torturing me.i have been married since 7 years.
befor that i was in a relationship with a girl.we grew together ,spent almost 6 years together.we were planning for living with each other.but the society ,me and she belong to was very much concerned about the castism. we together faced almost evry person in society together. but our relation was too strong to be broken. i was very frustated for those daily issues, my family was continously forcing me to leave her. and i was an emotional fool , my family emotionally blackmailed me ,and i did what my family told me to do.when i told her she was crying and i left her alone. i got married within 2 months after leaving her. i leave the city with my wife for 3 years.when i came back ,i was told by my friends that she had been waiting from the past three years for me.
after that she also got married to a police man who was much older than her and he was no match for her. now she have a bay too, but someone told me something really shocking thaat her husband beats her with every thing and she is really depressed now.few days ago she met to my friend on a wedding and started crying..
when my friend told me about that i didn't know what to do. Since then i am feeling myself guilty for her.
Every moment her face is in front of me, i saw her last time almost 4 years ago. but her face i couldn't forget.
i don't know what to do.
on one side i am having my wife aand son, on other side i am having a girl who is suffering a lot because of me.

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  • lex-dex
    11 years ago

    That's so sad, it brought tears to my eyes. But it's not your fault, you did what you felt you had to do. It's not your fault her life fell apart. She chose to marry a man who wasn't right for her and there was nothing you could do about it.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    So do you still love her, or are you juswt feeling guilty? Do you love your current wife? Please reply back if oyu can, I'd love to give some input

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    • raj.kumar
      11 years ago

      does it matter now? i really love her more than before ,more than anything else. and about my wife ,i must say anyone can't get better than her as a wife. she loves me but i like her

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      • ccjigsaw
        11 years ago

        If you're happy with your wife then it might be a good idea to find closure with this girl. She needs to hear from you, that you want her to move on. You would feel better with yourself if you did.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You will remain guilty until your heart gives in and pulls you under

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    I spoiled someone's life too but it's too long to tell. When it happened I felt terrible and very guilty but then I told myself that indeed I had been very bad but what happened already happened and that regrets won't change the past. I decided that I should just continue living without constantly thinking about this bad episode.

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