I should of went with my gut

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To the ones that may read this, look you dont know me or what I have been though Im a 21 year old mother with a 3 month old that I never hardly hold I feed him bath him change him buy him what ever he needs take him to the Dr, you get the point my other son is almost 2 and I dont really go out of my way to play with him I put on baby can read give him a toy put the gate up and try to get my house clean laundry done ect. I do something with them both not just much see i was STUPID and feel in love with a I work 24-7 guy and leaves me home with kids all day I had a job a life before I had them and to be truthful I liked it way better then this whole mother thing sorry it true I had a chance to give them both to loving familes that wanted a baby so bad but for some reason I couldnt do it know looking back on it I wish I would of not that I dont love them Im not mommy type here even as a teen I never babysat cause I hated kids now that Im a mom I have to be a love caring parent but I just cant find it in me. If you see my 2 sons they are happy go free you never guess the parents one the father never sees them he works 24-7 and me Im tring to keep up with everything else cant afford no nanny and family well my parent were'nt ever into the whole family thing and his parent are well who knows. I know I shound crazy and maybe your right I love then but dont want them what is wrong with me?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    There are a few things that you could do:

    1) Get some help from family and friends; if they knew the trouble you're having, they'd probably help you out (if they care about you and have the time).

    2) Go to the library and check out some books in the Parenting section. You are not the first mom who regrets having kids and there's lots of free information out there on dealing with a situation like yours.
    3) Give your children up for adoption. It's not too late.

    At least you're aware enough to admit there's a problem and that's a really big step. Now you have to take action because while kids are that little, they need that extra attention and bonding so that their brains develop properly. If they don't get adequate attention in the first few years, even if they were born normal, the damage (or lack of development) to their brains is IRREVERSIBLE and they will have learning/social disabilities for the rest of their lives.

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  • manii92
    11 years ago

    They didn't ask to be here.. That's not fair.. Im glad to hear you take good care of them but you are their mother and those are your children.. If you didn't want them you should have been more responsible.. There's nothing worse than a mother who doesn't want her children.. You do what you have to but there's more to raising children than just making sure they are fed..

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  • unrose
    13 years ago

    It doesn't "shound" crazy at all. A lot of mothers go through this kind of thing. Do what you think is right for the children. Do you think that this is fair to them?

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  • one_guy
    13 years ago

    Yeah agreed with precious posts. And seems like you don't know how to spell neither. I'm not perfect at it neither. Buy know enough. And sounds like you're not ready.

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