I see men as sexual objects

look .. we are not animals , we are human ,and I think you are not normal.

Mmmmm yeah its normal, although women in your position tend to usually marry the man and take his money. You lust for the things of the world, and they dont fill your soul. So you lead a baseless life of self induced pleasure and destroy others. Its perfectly normal and tons of women do it and they enjoy it. Look it up on the internet and see if you can find any groups to tell you that what your doing is great. Wouldn't your children think of you as a wonderful parent, using men for there pleasures and tossing them aside. Beautiful.

are you gay?

maybe , a woman needs to fill the shoes you keep handing to a man ...

sounds like a trust issue,,, try a female

ya normal for girls like u

Unfortunately all too normal in today's society.

This is exactly how I am but I am a man....its very lonely but also has its positives

U hade sex 4 times

That's the way most guys think and do so why can't she do the same!?

how mean.

i'm sure there are plenty of men out there who are more than willing to be used as a sexual object without needing to have positive reinforcement.

showing compassion just for sex is manipulative and i'm sure people are going to get pissed at you after reading that.

meh that's not my problem, anyways since you're looking for a cock to fuck i'm assuming where are you from? i'm 23 I hope you're into the younger guys.

hahahaha we should fuck we don't even need to talk since you'd get no enjoyment from that.

Are you good at sucking cocks?

Try being a Lesbian and contact Dr. Stackhouse.

Feminazi alert?

its normal, some animal species only need the opposite sex for sexual purposes only, and we are animals.

You're not a slut. You have commitment problems. Seek a psychiatrist, there's medication for everything.

You have major issues and should get some professional help. Objectifying males isn't your only issue, you seem to have no ability to form meaningful, lasting relationships. Which is sad as your missing out on a large part of life.

You also seem to lack the ability to look at the affect your actions have on others. You're dragging these 4 kids though a life where nothing is stable, people come and go. Why did you bother having them if you were going to treat them this way? Do you not think that children learn by example?

I used to be you, but long ago, when I was young, single, no kids, not attached or married. If men can do that, why not us? I had no desire to answer to anyone, have anyone control any aspect of my life. I enjoyed great sex, and NO GUYS, that doesn't mean we use men-- for anything other than a night. Then just GO HOME, or I would leave. But HIV wasn't around much then, and ppl were not as bad as now [jr high kids & oral sex being so common]. I had fun, no married men...

Then we grow up. Lady-- YOU HAVE KIDS. GROW UP. They did not ask to be born, so as far as ALL of you divorced moms go, you have no business having BF's, messing up the kids' heads, allowing them to get attached, then ripping him out of their life, etc. You can have your life after they're older. YOU did this, now behave, take responsibility, or STOP reproducing. sheesh.

It happens exactly the same thing to me. But I'm a guy and see women as nothing more than a weekend of pure fun.

That sucks.

Do whats best for your kids, but a single mum isnt unusuall or bad.

Poor judgement in relationships. Talk to your doctor about birth control. Do something with your life to be a positive role model for you kids.

wrong story :P

i do agree with gunstarbob and if you truly think that god put us here to suffer then do so but remember that if he controlled us and stopped us from doing bad things that he'd be living our life and i think that all should be happy no matter the circumstances, we learn from the bad anyways it makes us stronger does it not? well if you'd like to look further into this you should read so of "jd howes" stuff it's breath taking and it may change your opinion and thought sbout everything ...btw this is tiffany :P

It's normal not to want to be dependant on a man and you shouldn't have to be. I don't think it's ok for you to play mind games with a guy to make him think you like him just so u can screw him and then ignore him. If a guy were to do that to u, u'd be pissed as hell. Besides why ignore him... just fuck him again if ur only seeing him as a sexual object =)

i think you should think of your kids
ask them what they want.
and if you decide to try and meet a guy you should ask their opinion on him.
ultimately it's not up to them who you choose but they should at least like the guy.
maybe you should try going out with girls, since you only think of guys for sex and don't want to start a relationship with a guy..

e-mail me so we can discuss this further. I am a doctor. Of the MIND. Get what I'm saying? [email protected]

u might as wll have a penis

sounds like you like it in the asshole?

I must say that fulfilling one's urges to have sex is normal.

However I must add that the impressions of this could affect your children.

growing up with out a father is hard on kids
ur first pryority should be ur kids and wats best for them

Well how do your kids feel about it? Do your kids want a father? You need to think about them, but it's cool that your raising your kids on your own. This is just my opinion.