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I'm a girl, and one of my best friends is a guy. He mostly hangs out with girls, but has a couple close other guy friends. But with these guy friends, he's really close. They make gay and sexual jokes towards eachother, all the time. They lay in a bed together but make jokes about it. I don't know if they are doing it to be funny or if they're legit gay. IIN?
Nothen is wrong with that I am a chick and when ever my bffs who r girls have sleep overs we sleep in the same bed with eachouther
I agree with grewell I have about 90% friends that are girls and the others guys my guy friends and I are really close and we do the same things and I'm not gay I have a gf btw
Its normal for gay jokes, but hell no you dont get in a bed with a dude and expect to be straight just wtf
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nah, boys are just boy, they do it too. Even I as a gay person, i do not crack up jokes about myself. You should not generalize everyone who makes homosexual jokes to be gay right?
on top of that, girls/boys often has slumber parties together or communal sleeping sessions, that does not make them gay.
Could go either way. I'm a straight guy and I make gay jokes all the time, don't have problems making physical contact with my male friends to an extent. But it's generally nothing more than a hug to greet them or a quick arm around the shoulder here and there. I have no desire to consistently touch somebody that I am not sexually attracted to, so if they are going overboard their may be some bi-curiosity going on.
I would define overboard stuff as:
-excessive hugging when they are drinking- I knew a guy in college who always tried to hug me when he drunk, he had a gf but it strongly came off as homo to me
-coming dangerously close to kissing in jest- it may be funny for some but i prefer for my mouth to not get too close to another man's
-frequently holding hands for no reason- i'd be OK with this for like 2 secs on rare occasions as a joke, but if they're comfortable doing it on the regular it's homo
-any sort of cuddling is decidedly gay
When people are that comfortable with their sexuality that theyre able to make jokes about being gay, they're probably straight. It's the homophobic jerk-offs who usually turn out to be gay.
regardless of whether they're straight or gay... if they're truly your friends, does it really matter?