I really want my boyfriend to have sex with other women

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I really want my boyfriend to have sex with other women. it started out talking sexy about 3 somes & then somehow it got to "I want you to have sex with my best friend". The thought of him having sex with other women excites me! I think it's such a turn on. I guess in other words, I want to have an open relationship with him. Is that weird or normal? Have you been in an open relationship? How'd it go? Any feedback would be great!

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago | pl

    "Sorry babe but she's WAY better than you in bed so... Yeah... We're done."

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    • opal-leaves
      10 years ago

      Haha good luck finding another girl who'll let you sleep with whomever. Plus I know that's a possibility but I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy. :)

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      • gummy_jr
        10 years ago

        :D

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  • SuperBenzid
    10 years ago

    With all the extreme kinks out there that make this seem tame by comparison, I'd imagine it couldn't be that uncommon.

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  • VirgilManly
    10 years ago

    Can I be your boyfriend?

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  • missy100
    10 years ago

    Be sure you know what you are doing. It can be fun and exciting. It can turn into a nightmare. If it works for you, enjoy it.

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  • screwthestandard
    10 years ago

    I'm the same way, lol. I have a cheating fetish.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    In the 60's we had a lot of casual sex; free love and all that stuff. It worked out well enough in our environment; various girls passing through for a few days, several times a month.
    But we had no STD's to speak of going around and nobody was someone else's gf/bf; we were all unattached and there was never any jealousy. If a couple "hooked up", then their involvement with others usually ceased, their time better spent getting to know one another better.
    Today, it is probably a recipe for disaster, but you (or actually, he) might get lucky and it all works out well.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    Interesting topic. I gotta drop the kids off at the pool then I'll comment

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  • Crusades
    10 years ago

    I'm pretty sure this post was written by a man. Most women are way too selfish and egotistical to share their partner with other people.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      And most men are willing to share their partner with other people? Or are they to selfish and egotistical too?

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    • Jennarose3
      10 years ago

      Im a woman and i let my boyfriend go fuck who he wants. On one condition, he has to fuck me once he gets home(; i dont see how its a big deal.

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      • opal-leaves
        10 years ago

        @Jennarose3 omg how does it work? Hehe

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    • Tarkio
      10 years ago

      It was written by a man to get support for his selfish egotistical idea.

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    • opal-leaves
      10 years ago

      lolol I'm a woman, & I am selfish & egotistical but doesn't mean I don't want my boyfriend to have fun ;)haha

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  • omphemetse
    10 years ago

    Insane

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  • Shroot
    10 years ago

    what's the fucking point of having a relationship then?

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    • opal-leaves
      10 years ago

      Uh he's the person I live with & come home to everyday, a relationship isn't always about sex.

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      • Shroot
        10 years ago

        Fair point

        I just struggle to see the value of a relationship that isn't faithful.

        But if you don't mind and your partner doesn't I guess that's ok

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    • Tarkio
      10 years ago

      Absolutely!

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  • shortandtothepoint
    10 years ago

    Nope. I'm biased though.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    We (my husband and I) have always had an open relationship. He gets to have his regular girls (2 of them), and I have my brother and another guy. Sometimes we have 3somes together (me, my husband - and either another guy or girl). Do what feels right... but be safe.

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  • Kittykinz
    10 years ago

    Well go for it if you believe it's not a weird phase that you'll rush out of, regretting everything that happened

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  • hahaYeah
    10 years ago

    I value and respect my boyfriend, and myself. I would never allow my boyfriend to go around sleeping with whomever. With Ratchet ass hoes these days, that spells disaster. I ain't trying to get a disease. And my man respects me enough to stay faithful.

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  • Lonely2
    10 years ago

    Your bi

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  • SkullsNRoses
    10 years ago

    What does your friend think of this idea?

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  • biaj
    10 years ago

    Is the value of sex getting so low that people will do anything with their bodies? like i thought it was supposed to be special, something you only do with someone you deeply love and deeply trust and share a deep bond with, not a hobby you do as often as you feel like. am i wrong?

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  • macc55
    10 years ago

    Seems normal.

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    • Tarkio
      10 years ago

      Until someone gets hurt.

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