I really want a boyfriend but i get friendzoned.

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Right, first off I just want to say that I'm in no way vain, horrible, freaky or anything like that.

I can't get a boyfriend. It's like I'm the girl they ask advice about with relationships. I see these horrible girls in my year get asked out and I never do. I am quite good looking, nice, and intelligent.

My biggest thought is because I'm short and petite. The reason I thought this is because one time I was round at my friends house and her date-anything-with-a-vagina-boyfriend came round. And I thought he WOULD end up hitting on me. He just said I was a leprechaun. Idk, should I give up? It seems utterly HOPELESS. And, this guy hits on ANY girl, okay?

What do you think I should do? And why do you think I can't get one?

p.s I'm not going to give my actual age in case anyone figures out who I am. I am between the ages of 12 and 16.

When I was younger I used to get asked out, like when I was in primary school and now in high school it's like, nothing. Oh well, guess I'll be a cat lady. :c

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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    Short petite girls turn guys on though. I don't understand this. Anyway, you shouldn't be too concerned about getting into a relationship right now. If you wait, someone will come into your life, and you will fall in love with that person, instead of most meaningless relationships that people get involved in.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I guess, it just irritates me :/ xx

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    Try asking guys out.

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    • davesumba
      11 years ago

      at her age, unless she wants guys dating her just for possible sexual relations, i'd advise in not letting any guy know that you like them. all that tells a guy who wasn't interested or didn't know he could be interested before is, hey, you've got a good chance of gettin in my pants.
      If you want as real a boyfriend as you can get at that age, just be yourself, and maybe be flirty/friendly, if the guy likes you and wants a 'serious' relationship, then he'll make it happen.

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      • Anime7
        11 years ago

        ya that makes sense

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    What?

    You're between the ages of 12 and 16. Just because no one's hitting on you at the moment doesn't mean you'll become a cat lady. Stop being so needy for people's attention and focus on other stuff. Get a hobby or something.

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    • valisque
      11 years ago

      missing the point. Why cant some people just answer the damn question?

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      • Corleone
        11 years ago

        Fine.

        Okay, so guys aren't asking you out at the moment. Try flirting a little more. That'll make it easier for guys to see you in a romantic way.

        Still, keep my original advice in mind. As soon as you get comfortable with being single, people will find you a lot more attractive.

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    ffs these " IIN i am under 18 and don't have a boyfriend" posts need to fucking stop. you are too young to have a serious, meaningful, real relationship in the first place, quit freaking worrying about it, and if some cute high school fling starts, then great, if it doesn't, who cares if you don't have a friend who you happen to kiss, cause that's all it is.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Um, actually I'm in year 9 and nearly all my friends have done it&have serious boyfriend's and I'm tired of it.

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      • Sog
        11 years ago

        In time you will understand. But not now. There's nothing we can do to help you, you're just too young to get it.

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  • Gid
    11 years ago

    Yep. Normal. You're so young, you have so much to learn. That's okay. Don't worry about it, you haven't even reached your physical maturity yet. One day, you will, ad things will be different.

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Dry spell. At your age with all those raging male hormones around you all you need is a pulse.

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  • littlemissidgaf
    11 years ago

    I'm short but I have a great body I don't have a boyfriend so It's not you

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Have you waved your knickers at them?

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  • scumfuck
    11 years ago

    maybe the guys are just shy around you idk :) i love petite girls. i don't get why girls always crave to have a boyfriend be chill about it and wait till you find someone you like. that's how i do it haha gl

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Girls get friendzoned?

    Why not try and find another poor lost soul in the friendzone and see if you two can't redeem each other from that purgatory?

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