I really need help with shy gf!!

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Ok heres my prob(s):
Ive been dating my best friends sis, who is 1 year younger than me, for 2 and a bit months. She is my first girlfriend. She goes to a all girl boarding school so i only see her over the holidays. We started dating via txts before the holidays. She talks to me fine with texts or facebook but wont face to face. I talk and spend time with her but she ignores me. I rarely have face to face conversations with her. Her friends tell me she really likes me and i really like her. We havent kissed and when i get close to her she pushes me away. My best friend(her bro) and one of my other friends think we will break up soon and says we shouldnt be together. Mainly her bro who gets really annoyed when i talk bout her. Her best friend(also my friend) and few other girls says she really likes me and tells her to stop ignoring me. She goes back to school in a few weeks so i need help by then. We go to the beach with her bro and friends on weekends and shes less shy(dosent tell me to go away but stil ignores me).

Is it normal for her to be like this? Is this a normal relationship?

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Based on 39 votes (18 yes)
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  • Aewe101
    11 years ago

    Awww :) she's just shy, im the same way some times it's hard for girls because when you like some one alot and you never get to see them when you do you get shy around them and you don't know how to act or the right things to say, just be like aww stop pushing me away, it's bad enough I hardly get to see you ;) xoxoxox

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  • Lilith1987
    12 years ago

    She's just really shy and has no experience probably with the opposite sex. You probably need to spend more time with her other than holidays although in your predicament that's not really an option... Have you tried joking around with her? Maybe start really small talk like yes/no questions. I used to be like that back when I never socialized at all. Just be patient, if you're meant to be love will find a way :)

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