I really loath my sister- am i normal?

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I have tried since birth to get along with my sister and i understand that all siblings fight but its not fighting with me and her i simply cannot stand. She is horribly rude saying many things I wouldn't say to people I hate, lies more than she tells the truth, is a pity me person but never cares to hear of anyone elses problems, has no respect for anyone, thinks that she is all knowing, can never be left out of anything and whines like a baby if she is, and on and on. I don't associate myself with so negative and fun draining but have tried since she is family but still can't bring myself to be around her for more then 10 minutes. Many people think since she is not yet an adult that i can't judge her but people grow, but her personality is not changing.

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  • TisNormalindeed
    13 years ago

    that sounds just like my sister, that fucker is 25 and still hasnt changed her ways. Im 20 and dont intend on putting up with her shit much longer.

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  • ElephantEar
    13 years ago

    We have the same sister....Damn...

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  • ryanthony
    13 years ago

    It's hard to belong to family.

    We are born together for a reason, though and you should do everything you can to make things more pleasant. Really talk to her about the situation.

    Time has a habit of changing people and the way they act and how they feel about things.

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  • sherry
    13 years ago

    My sister has resented me her whole life. I made her go to college, helped her with algebra, typed her term papers and baby sat with her child every weekend and one summer. She never lifted a finger for me. She is very paranoid and I think she was born that way. Sometimes things are beyond your control.

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  • xnicki17x
    14 years ago

    sounds like my sister

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  • XxMPbabeMPxX
    14 years ago

    truth is...i feel the same way about my sister. and i hate myself every day for it! i dont like hating people and knowing i hate someone that that's close to me it hurts. but i have the same problems. it's crazy and i cant stand it. we get along sometimes. but about only five times a year. and they're sporadic. they'll happen for like five minutes and then she goes and insults me again and i'm stuck with it. my parents dont do anything about it, though because she's the 'baby' and gets whatever she wants. like i'll want to go somewhere with my mom, and i'll go sit in the car and wait for her, but then she comes out with HER and i get really angry. but my mom just yells at me for being upset in the first place. it sucks doesnt it?

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      Yeah -I think they are really selfish and ruthless & don't really care about your feelings at all. So you get trampled on & hurt & upset, & they just carry on. And if confronted, you are the one to blame for creating a fuss. It stinks.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Sounds harsh & if this is true then you might be better off keeping your distance and minimizing your exposure. I had to do that with a sib who eventually alienated themself from a lot of family. It stinks.

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