I really like this girl...

I really like this girl that I perform improv with, but shes not my typical type. I consider myself to be pretty clean cut and traditional, and so is my family. However, her parents are very artsy, and she has shoulder length black hair and has several piercings. She gives me the same vibe I give her and its obvious there is mutual attraction. However, I don't want to make a move because I don't think my family would approve. I'm stuck! Is it normal that I am so confused?

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  • angelok11

    It is your life, not theirs. They gave you life, but it is up to you to live it, and if you like her, go for it.

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    • isaactaruma23

      your genius!

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  • I understand why you are confused, i would say just go with the feeling and see were you end up after a while if you really like her and you two are serious about the relationship it won't matter if your parents don't think she suits you. If you love her and she is nice to your parents they will except her! Besides she might Change a bit if she really likes you and wants to impress your parents!! I hope this helps.

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  • bang_bang_bang

    you cant let your family get in the way of your love life. think of whats best for you and how you feel, not them. and if you really care for her youll not care what your family, or anyone for that matter thinks.

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  • Deceiver

    you must to sacrifice some things to have a good relationship.there is no such thing as a perfect relationship.But do go with your first instinct.do what u feel is right

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  • HellAndHighWater

    You should go for it if you feel that you both have feelings for each other. Don't settle for a "type"

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  • heavahh

    you never know what your parents will think
    just becuase shes diffrent dosnt make her bad
    and if you like her your parents should come to trust your choice

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  • gunfreak

    ask her out.

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  • AnitLove22

    Do watever makes you and her happy ! you cant spend your life worring about if other ppl are gona aproove ! love life live life !

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  • WeedgirlsFUN

    Dude just do it..Ur fimaly will hav eto deal with it..Just ask her out and have fun man good lock and peace out

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  • roadrunnerxo

    If you like her, you should take a chance on her. Do it for yourself, not because someone else isnt going to like it. You never know though. I've been plenty of relationships like that, and I've had to sneak and do everything with these people; it's fun and exciting, but it makes me feel like I'm not worthy enough to him because I felt they were ashamed of me. I think you should give it a chance. See what happens. Put everything out there though, so nothings hidden.

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  • Stephen

    Take a walk on the wildside!

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    • EyeOfTheStorm

      fo sho xD

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      • coolstdude

        dont do anything you not 100%% sure of man trust me on this one...

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  • W8_4_It

    Take the chance she could be that someone who completes you. Also if you on the small chance spend your life with her do your parents have anything to do with your relationship with her I mean honestly. Your parents should have no say in your life. They will only live to see maybe the next 40 years you have another 70 and will have to live with the fact that you let her go for the rest of your life do the map now go out tell her you want to go out. She says yes you drop me a message I say I told you so the end live happily ever after fairy tale ending.

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  • Hekate

    buriedalive is right. You go for it! As long as you like her, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. If your family loves you, they'll accept who you choose.

    ~Hekate

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  • buriedalive

    You shouldn't let that get in the way if you like her. Ask her out, and if it turns out she's too different for youse to get along just end it. I don't see why your parents have to get involved at all, especially in the early stages of a relationship. My parents wouldn't let me or my brothers date anyone when we were living with them, so we just did it behind their backs.

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