I really don't love or care about my gf.

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I've been in a relationship with this girl for 2 years now she seems to love me,but I really don't care about her... all I do is go out with her Pretend I care and it ends in sex,Lately I've been sick of her problems complaining about life and her in general,I've also cheated on her like 20 times or more with another girl these few months.

Should I break up with her? Or tell her the the truth which will probably break her really bad....

Don't break up but tell her how I feel 2
Break up without telling the truth 11
Break up and tell the truth 17
Do nothing... 0
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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago | pl

    What is the point in being with someone you don't like? I notice lots of people do this and think they are really stupid for wasting their own time investing on someone unimportant to them.

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    • nikkiclaire
      5 years ago

      Totally agree. It seems some people just can't be alone because they have deep self esteem issues. In this assholes case they are warranted.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago | pl

    Wow! You are a real piece of crap! I gotta tell you, you are just fucking awful. If someone fucks you over really badly in the future don't feel sorry for yourself, cause you have got some bad Karma headed your way, dude. No freaking lie, man. Whatever you do don't be surprised if she explodes.

    Maybe you can breakup with her, and tell her that you feel ya'll have grown apart, you need space to go find yourself and what not.

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    • Hendrick
      5 years ago

      I already know that i'm not a good person,but I can care less about karma or someone fucking me over since I do most of the fucking.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        Well, just break up with this poor chick. Find a way to let her down easy, dude.

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  • Gramhader
    5 years ago

    Its totaly normal to not like a person. And totaly normal to just be attracted to someone. And that seems to be the case. If you keep going back to the person you cheated with perhaps your with the wrong person and there is nothing wrong with that. I would definitely say your with the wrong person or mabey you just dont want a relationship and there is also nothing wrong with that either but staying with her is a bad idea because it is wrong to cheat unless your in an open relationship. But im sure you knew that. Plus you are keeping her from someone who really could care for her and love her. Come on man.

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  • fakeaccount3
    5 years ago

    Lame

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    It's stupid! You're wasting each others time. Tell her the truth and move on. She deserves that.

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  • smithap
    5 years ago

    I doubt guys like u ever felt love to anyone. If you both have been in physical relation, that she also was interested to know the part, better find ways so that she start hating you or lost trust. If she allows all the private sessions you had, oly because she trusted your love, better dont open up,it wil be her worst part. just decrease your contact day by day n make her hate you or drag it till she decided to marry some other. Better dont play with others feelings any more.

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  • Tealights
    5 years ago

    End the relationship.

    You neither have to explain anything, nor tell the truth. It'll just burden her emotionally over mistakes you made for your own selfish reasons. Instead just end it, say you just don't feel the same, and that you're sorry for wasting her time; she'll cry, and think it's her fault, but overtime she'll get over it and find someone better (hopefully).

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  • Xboxlover35
    5 years ago

    Break up with her so she can find someone who really loves her. Don't tell her though. She doesn't need to know and it would only hurt her and make her feel like she isn't good enough.

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    • Rictictavie
      5 years ago

      I agree they should break up but the truth should be told imo. It will make it easier for her to realize OP is a piece of shit and move on. Otherwise she may be left feeling like she did something wrong.

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    • nikkiclaire
      5 years ago

      Hopefully if he did tell her, she would be intelligent enough to know that he is just an asshole, and it has nothing to do with her.

      I agree he shouldn't tell her but this prick sounds like he won't be able to help himself and must brag at any cost.

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