I really can't tell if he likes me?

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A bit of background: I have been at uni coming to 3 years and this is my last (few more months) and there's a guy that i've been on and off talking to in my class. It's so weird, sometimes we say hello and others we don't. He hangs out with a group that I don't like and therefore I hardly talk to him but I really like him and would like to spend more time but he seems reluctant to separate from his group and be an individual.

Anyway I can't tell if he likes me. He's friendly when we talk and it's cool but after nada. We used to call each other like a year ago and just chit chat but we don't do that anymore. BUT I always catch him staring at me in class and when he makes jokes he always looks over to see if im laughing but he hasn't confronted me or anything. I guess sometimes i'm weird and maybe he doesn't know how to approach BUT I don't know. I wanna apologize for being weird sometimes and not saying hello etc BUT I fear he'll tell the other bitches and they'll talk.

Should I apologize and what else should I do to see if he likes me before we leave uni and I may never see him again. :(

PLEASE help ASAP!

I'll return the favour!

cheers.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Don't apalogize. You not saying Hi is a small matter to begin with and apalogizing just inflates the issue.

    He does like you. Why else all the staring and seeing if your laughing? Next time you see him, talk to him and if he won't ask you out then YOU ask him out. Don't let this opportunity pass you by.

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    • kylazoko
      13 years ago

      Thank you for replying!

      If he hasn't asked me out in the 3 years & we've been in the same class then I doubt he ever will. I probably wouldn't have said yes because dating people you work with NEVER works!

      But now we are coming to an end maybe things could work now?
      Catching him on his own is a little rare. I would talk to him more often if he was on his own but like I said I don't like his peoples.

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  • niles402
    13 years ago

    I totally agree with valkeer(62628).He may really appreciate you and that's why he fears you might reject.I used to do like that with a girl and guess what,we are both in love now.

    Don't confront him and ask him out cuz it may change his idea of you.just tell him that you have always found him sort of fun and that you like him.you'll see he tells you the same.Dont mention the previous absence of hellos.It's not weird but it might leave with no answers or remarks.

    I'm just telling ya this cuz i've been in violent(maybe his is not violent) gangs and most of the big guys are hard just outside but soft inside.So,you may not follow my words but gd luck!

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  • Rapidfire000
    12 years ago

    Ask him if he wants to catch a movie or something else guys like it when girls take a little charge. But don't get overzelous

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You people need to get over it ask him if he says no then let it go dont go stalking them. If the person says yes go for it but if you cant tell and are too chicken then GET OVER THEM!!!

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    • Emberpool
      13 years ago

      Don't be bitchy. It doesn't sound like shes stalking him at all. She just wants advice on what she should do, and thats completely reasonable.

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  • Askyouknow
    13 years ago

    No need for an apology...he likes you...And if you want him to say it ask him if he likes you when both of you are alone.

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