I ran into a girl i used to like today

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Don't get me wrong, although I have said some comments in the past to badmouth her weight and so on, I am happy with my fiance. Well, today I ran into a girl I used to really like but she didn't like me because she was taken or something. Today though, she was appparently depressed as her boyfriend left her and I was dress to kill for work so she was very interested in me today.

I talked rather nicely as we were waiting for an extremely long time at our bank but the feeling of "doing her" wasn't there. Is this normal, she was pretty and I used to really like her but I more would want to be her friend now than a bed buddy. Is this normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    The fact that you had no interest in her is a good thing. You are afterall taken. So yes that is normal. Gj on not wanting to cheat while with someone. Guess there are more than a couple men like u out there

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  • NopeNotNormal
    13 years ago

    I highly doubt she was interested because you were dressed to kill. ::stifling laughter:: And she wasn't interested in you before because you're revolting, puny minded, and piggish.

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  • elasticband
    13 years ago

    Hello Budthewise, I noticed that all these stories are easily accessible from your profile where you have a photo and everything. Aren't you afraid that your fiance is going to find you and read all of this?

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Her and I share everything. We even know about each other's profiles and I could log in as her and write for her and visa-versa. In the end, we are fine and I didn't cheat as I said I wanted to before.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Well like everything: borderline intelligibility; borderline commentary; borderline employment ... you have a borderline relationship with the woman you impregnated.

    You can only juggle so many issues being on the borderline - struggling to barely manage, always slipping into failure - so why would "pumpkin" be any different with you?

    Of course you will cope by blaming as you crumble into failure. It will be her fault - too overweight (and pregnant). Just like its the fault of women, hispanics, visible minorities, and posts that aren't written as you think they should be.

    It's all pretty sad Bud.

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    • NopeNotNormal
      13 years ago

      "Well like everything: borderline intelligibility; borderline commentary; borderline employment ... you have a borderline relationship with the woman you impregnated.

      You can only juggle so many issues being on the borderline - struggling to barely manage, always slipping into failure - so why would "pumpkin" be any different with you?

      Of course you will cope by blaming as you crumble into failure. It will be her fault - too overweight (and pregnant). Just like its the fault of women, hispanics, visible minorities, and posts that aren't written as you think they should be.

      It's all pretty sad Bud."

      This is the greatest post I have ever read.

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    • simba1
      14 years ago

      Couldnt have put it better myself!

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      Hey, I already have given out a way to back my stuff up...have you?

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  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    Normal. Sounds to me like you're happy with your fiance :)

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      It took a lot of work but I guess I am happy. Sure, I wish the weight was gone or that we had more of a better income, but all in all I guess I would be happy.

      Thank you for seeing that though, it is nice to see a comment once in a while on a story of mine that isn't a childish cry for attention.

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      • hotchickie81
        14 years ago

        Haha, no prob! :) I know what you mean. Yeah, working on the weight isn't always easy. Working out/walking is always good. And cut back on the fast food and junk, if you guys eat that stuff. But the bottom line is you're happy. Good luck! :)

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  • SomeRandomPerson
    14 years ago

    Of course it's normal. It's a girl who you've used to like, which would be rather awkward at the thought of doing her.

    It would be weird for me.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    14 years ago

    Well, it is nice to be recognized but I care for my fiance so I will leave it nameless. I don't want to cheat but the idea was there. As far as anything else though, I just wasn't interested.

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    • simba1
      14 years ago

      Hey, Budthewise. If you are still looking at other Women, then why are you engaged, and why are you having a baby? The grass on the other side of the fence is always greener. You should have played the field while you had the chance

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      • [Old Memory]
        14 years ago

        Screw it, I will use my real name now. I wasn't interested in this girl this time. I USED to have a huge crush on her and it was weird walking in to her. The feelings are somewhat the same but my fiance is by far better.

        By me admitting this, it just shows that I am human and still think like a human. You should try to admit fault sometime.

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        • [Old Memory]
          14 years ago

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  • BrightEyes
    14 years ago

    It's normal. Not everyone wants to have sex with someone they used to. Sometimes sparks fizzle and die.

    Also, I can tell that's you, Budthewise.

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