I over think. is it normal for the spark to stop?

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I have had a thing off and on with a really good guy for 9 months now, and I really like him. He's country, muscular, and doesn't make me feel like I'm being used. In all my relationships I always got this devastating feeling like something is wrong and that I'm not happy with them. This guy... I could say I love him, but I over think and I got that feeling. How do i stop it?

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  • LornaMae
    5 years ago

    It seems great but I couldn't help but wonder about the "off and on" part... now *that* would make me overthink it as well.

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  • Ghork
    5 years ago

    I overthink too, and in my mind i think its for the better. I dont want to be a narrow minded person, i want to know all the outcomes. But ive recently noticed that all the outcomes or thoughts ive overthought about rarely come true. Just dont worry about it too much, maybe talking about it with him helps?

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    The spark? Giddy feeling? There's a difference with being in love and loving someone. Just follow your heart.

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