I only want the people that usually don't want me- iin?

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I can't help it but I will become friends with someone and sometimes i get a bit attached but they don't feel the same way towards me. Its like the people I really want in my life don't want me as much in theirs , hence not becoming attached back. There are a few who make an effort but I'm not drawn to them as friends, its like chalk & cheese. What causes this and how do I find someone who values me just as much ?

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  • bucho's_butt
    8 years ago

    I had the same problem in my 20's. I wanted to hang out with these people, but they didn't seem to be as enthusiastic about it. Things have changed recently. Probably because I act a lot more aloof these days. You could try toning yourself down and not acting over eager. Everything is a game, really.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    That sure curtails any possibility of having to actually deal with a relationship, doesn't it?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    8 years ago

    I've found that some guys prefer a "challenge" over a woman who they perceive as easy to get. Doesn't make them feel special if they are chosen by the latter. I'm sure if you keep trying, you will eventually be successful. You will experience a lot of heartache in the process though.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Its got nothing to do with guys

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        8 years ago

        Ok, guys, girls, cows, sheep, hermaphrodites, transgenders, transsexuals, asexuals...

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  • iiitbcobu
    8 years ago

    human nature

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