I only date men with money.

I’m 26 yrs old and will only date men with money. They must have their own place, a car, etc., but it goes beyond that. I reject “regular” guys who are just doing ok and can’t provide for me. I feel a man should be able to provide for his woman financially because eventually love fades, so its more important for a man to be a good provider. When I meet a man I don’t go for looks, I look for a great job and a fat bank account.

Recently I dumped a guy… He was ok, I’m guessing he made about $50,000 per year, had a little piece of shit car and a basement apartment. He was 40 yrs old and at that age I felt he should have acquired more in life. My breaking point was when he showed me his blue ray movie collection and I was like “Great, let’s watch some movies “. He tells me he doesn’t have a blue ray player, he’s waiting for it to go on sale. He had purchased about 15 movies, but never purchased a blue ray player. I was disgusted. There were other signs of cheapness or poorness as well. For a man to be penny pinching at 40 is whack, I mean he didn’t have any kids or ex wife so why so tight and cheap? A 40 year old man should be able to go out and spend $250 (top of the line) on a blue ray player for himself, am I right? I know I have really high standards which at times I think no one will be able to fulfill. I meet plenty of “regular” guys who I reject all the time. I’m not going to change, but I am wondering do many women think like me.

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Comments ( 46 )
  • JustBreathe

    That's pretty cold. Money isn't important at all! How about you be a big girl and make your own living and SUPPORT yourself? It's 2011 now sweetheart.

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    • coolio75650932

      its 2012 now sweat cheeks

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  • dappled

    Wow... feminists must be clapping their hands with delight that their struggle has resulted in nothing at all.

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  • RayBans

    Someday, you're gonna get old and ugly, and you won't be "loved" by your husband. You'll starve to death and do this world a favor.

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  • Floppykafilkafish

    When your looks fade no rich guys gunna ever want you just saying

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  • randomjelly

    You will be miserable your whole life. Heehee that makes me happy.

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  • DannyKanes

    She takes my money, well I'm in need.
    Oh she's a triflin' friend indeed.
    Oh she a gold digger way overtime.
    That digs on me.

    I ain't saying she a gold digger.

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  • Jon77

    Its a nice feeling to have money but the feeling wears off. Money can't bring everything as you should now.

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  • but there are so many nice men out there who have beautiful qualities more important than money. kindness ,commonsense and fairness to name a few.money cant buy these. life is over in a wink of an eye just be careful you dont throw the wrong fish back

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  • Skank

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  • LADIES AND GENTLEMAN, WHAT WE HAVE HERE IS A CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF SKEEZY ASS HOE! SHE IS OBVIOUSLY A MUTHAFUCKIN GOLD DIGGER!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • DannyKanes

    She takes my money, well I'm in need.
    Yeah she's a triflin' friend indeed.
    Oh she's a gold digger way over time.
    That digs on me.

    Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger,

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  • MarijuAtheist

    Unfortunately yes, it is normal. There are literally thousands of women like you out there, and to be honest, I think it's a bit pathetic. Learn how to stand on your own two feet and date a guy because you like him, not because you feel financially secure with him. My boyfriend of 4 years is a dog-walker and a struggling writer and I wouldnt trade him for anyone -- in fact I plan on spending the rest of my life with him. Wanna know why? Because I have my own money, and I'm not the kind of woman who depends on a man for materialistic things that don't even matter. Maybe one day when you get a littler older you'll realize what makes a man a man, and I can assure you it's not the size of his wallet.

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  • joelsmo

    I think you should go ahead and start your own business, since money is all that matter anyway. Buy a jar of condemns and good luck.

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  • jayrod105

    How about you go and make your own money. Oh! thats right it would require a small amount of initiative and most importantly intelligence. Like most girls you seem like a boring, dense, superficial moron and Im sure your fulfilling many middle aged mens fantasies. Just pretend your rich and you can nail this dumb 26 year old tart.

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  • elkieyo

    Huge gold digging skanky ass whore is huge.

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  • Thisis funny on so many levels and pathetic. You better go for old people about to die in your case. Have fun though.

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  • Omega-Claws

    That's a good strategy. Find a guy who can cover your needs financially well you can just sit on your ass and not do anything.

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  • DannyKanes

    Look at that, my iPhone got so excited it posted it twice :-S

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  • dimanche

    I can understand why you would want to date someone with money including the security etc, but I would strongly suggest not closing the door on the "regular" guys since they may have things to offer you haven't seen yet, plus at your age you have plenty of time to become financially stable

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  • MercedesBenz

    You sound like a classless, poor, white trash slut.

    Only a poor bitch like you would be money crazed. Girls with class who make their own cash don't obsess after guys with money.

    So, keep sportin' your fake Coach bags and wannabe name brand clothes. You will never know what the good life is like because no man with any sense of self confidence who makes real money will ever go after a skank like you.

    Damn, I am so lucky I am out of the dating pool and my girl makes good cash so I don't have to worry about triflin hoes like you.

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    • The only thing I'm offended by is that you would dare call my Coach and Louis Vuitton bags fake. I don't wear fake shit boo, and any man I date has to be able to drop $1000 on a bag for me at any given time.

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  • roxco

    If a guy is ugly and has money trust me many many girls find his wealth a big turn on because no one wants a loser ass bum who can't take us out!!!

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  • CountryRoads

    Normal!! That's why rich ugly men get such hot young women.
    I'm from a good family and I have a masters degree, I'm not white trash and I bet you aren't either. These people who say only white trash women do this are wrong; women with high standards of living do this. I only date men with nice cars and good jobs, because I want a man who can provide for me. It's basic female instinct.

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    • Exactly. A woman with a lot to offer wants a man on her level or higher- period. If you're the cream of the crop why would you scrape the bottom of the pudding cup? It seems many posters are threatened by a woman who has high standards and knows her worth. Its easier to call her "trailer park trash" than deal with your own insecurities. I'm sure if any of these guys approached us we'd laugh ourselves silly.

      Today a very nice guy asked me to dinner by telling me he had a coupon for Benny Hanna's. I immediately declined because I knew he wasn't on the level that I date. I have no problem being friends with this guy, he's a nice person. But unfortunately very cheap, and I cannot stand a broke or cheap ass man.

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      • Chia_Sac

        Benihana.... so high class you don't know about it...

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      • sunny_wantsome

        You wanted to hear that thats why you agreed and now you must be satisfied that you are normal with just one comment of CountryRoads

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  • roxco

    I only date guys with money and huge dicks!!! Hahaha I hate tiny dicks!!!

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  • Bobtailcatgirl

    Get a job you lazy golddigger

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  • wisdomseeker

    I cannot believe how materialistic you are. It must be hard to have a tough heart like yours.

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  • Legion

    hook up with Hugh Hefner.. hes loaded, and loves young hot women. All his girls are gold digging bimbos but does he care, NO!

    One thing, you better be doing a lot of you-know-what to get the green though. he would put you out on your ass in a minute if you dont deliver.

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  • fartonmyface

    Oomph I don't care how hot you are, I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole. No one should have to provide for you. In this day and age you need to be able to fend for yourself. And you're wrong, true love NEVER fades. But you know what does fade? Your good looks. So when you are 40 and your butt and boobs start to sag, your "rich" male companion is gonna go find himself another young ignorant girl just like you were in your twenties, and you're going to be left all alone wishing you had a handsome man by your side, rich or not.

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  • lilaithe

    Shit girl, my boyfriends penniless and I still love him. I make my own mula. buy your own shit and fall in love based on the personality of the guy. You've gotta be independant. No guy wants a needy little bitch.

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  • coolio75650932

    *takes out wallet and credit cards* :3

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  • amc93

    Is not normal! I'm sorry but you sound like a gold digger :s You should just look for someone that makes you happy and loves you no matter how much money does he has and make your own money. Money isn't everything

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  • sunny_wantsome

    Learn some culture and system to live a life. seems you have a past that made you like this. Take a vacation meet new people visit a counselor

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  • PDK79

    I don't give a fuck how hot you are. If you live in MY house, you're ass better earn it! If I'm paying the bills, you BETTER have dinner on the table in a CLEAN house & the kids better have their chores & homework DONE when I get home if you're living off my dime. Otherwise, get your lazy, gold digging ass a job!! You better contribute one way or another.

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  • JR(562)

    GOLD digger

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  • MercedesBenz

    And men with money who don't like trailer park trash.

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  • PDK79

    What kind of money do YOU have? Do YOU have job? Or are you expecting a guy to support you just because you put out?

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  • A real man can provide financially for his woman. The only people who are mad at my post are girls with broke men and men who can't support their women.

    I suggest you people read "Smart Girls Marry Money". Google it. Lmao.

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    • sunny_wantsome

      i suggest you read wiki "Bimbo". Google it. Lmfao

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  • --ash--

    & she'll always be sexy & 20.

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  • A couple of things... I work full time and am in school for my MBA. I own my home and car. I support myself very well. I simply choose not to settle for an average guy. I want someone who is worthy of me. I've been told I'm a 9 or 10.

    And for those who say marry for love, love fades. Sorry but its true. Over half of marriages in America end in divorce because people marry for love, and when they fall out of love they naturally get divorced. So obviously basing a marriage on love is faulty. I'd rather base marriage on someone who can provide for me financially. And why isn't that isn't an important characteristic? Having money says alot about a person, it means they are a hard worker, driven, dedicated and ambitious. You'll never have to worry about your children going hungry with a man with money.

    Financial problems is the #1 reason for divorce in America.

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    • sunny_wantsome

      You only read and here what you want to believe. Well also look on the other side, also read the successful stories. They are much more just its the media that focuses more on negative stuff as we public want to watch more of that

      I pitty on your life one day you shall be singing the song
      "All out of Love - Air Supply"

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    • Your ideology is actually quite reasonable. Based on that outlook I don't blame you. However, a marriage cannot start without love. If anything I suggest that you don't make you doctrine about money known,that will probably save your relationship from collapsing. This is all coming from a male by the way. I do hope though that you plan to work for the life that you want established and as i said based on your ideology your outlook is understandable. Peace

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