I often have sex with my father in my dreams

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I am in my middle 30's and gay. I have a boyfriend. But since I am a young guy I often had sexual dreams about my father. Many times nothing physical happens in the dream, but more like sexual feeling, watching his hardon in his jeans or some touching or watching porn together. But sometimes the dream is so intense that I woke up with a big hardon and feeling like I almost came. If I remember well I had wet dreams when I was younger with him. Not anymore though. And in the real life I dont feel desire to have sex with him. What does this mean?

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  • smuffle
    14 years ago

    This happens to a lot of people. Freud thought it was repressed desires for the person in question, but personally I think it's more a kind of anxiety or fear of the fabric of your relationships with people falling apart, of things being as they definitely shouldn't be.

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    • incest
      14 years ago

      yes I read about that. But I find the incest dad-son stories extremely hot...

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  • boygemini
    7 years ago

    Wow. I feel relieved to know that this is not only my secret. My father and I first kissed during a Thanksgiving dinner (in the pantry, while everyone was at the table.) The mutual attraction had always been there. We had a secret sexual affair for a few years, and in a way, the taboo of it only heightened our passion and love for each other. I am gay.

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  • billyboy
    13 years ago

    Okay, I guess that means you are Gay. Dreams are just dreams. Don't make something out of them they are not.

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  • GingerGemnii
    2 years ago

    Same feelings but not ashamed or embarrassed.
    Enjoyed that feeling.

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  • Thedarknesssoonshallpass
    5 years ago

    One if my earliest memories is being in the shower with my dad and staring at his cock. I would've been about 5 or so. Nothing happened, that's not to say im glad it didn't.

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  • ashleycox99
    14 years ago

    i do know what your talking about but your father might later have sex with you

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    • incest
      14 years ago

      how do you mean 'later'?

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  • LadyJay303
    14 years ago

    I had that dream once when I was about 12 or so. I didn't feel sexually attracted to him or anything either, and he never touched me or did anything inappropriate to me. I read in a dream dictionary that it means you look up to him and someone you think is strong, and admire them (in a non-sexual way). Dreams are not to be taken in a literal way. there's always a hidden message to them, often completely different of that they depict in your mind. get a dream dictionary if you are having lots of dreams... see what they mean. Hope that helps!

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    • incest
      14 years ago

      the problem is that i dont look up on him. Quite the opposite. Sometimes I even feel like he is miserable a bit.

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  • Dusty96
    14 years ago

    did he touch u sexauly when u where younger or try to sleep with u that might be ur problem

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    • incest
      14 years ago

      not that I remember, but I had the feeling sometimes that he is gay. You know you feel it when somebody looks at you in a different way. But he was always kind of distant emotionally.

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      • Nickjacob28
        7 years ago

        I have the exact same feelings about my father

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