I obsess over my friends

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I have lots of friends, but for some reason, i will sometimes meet someone that I am especially fond of, but I'm not attracted to them. They're not exactly close friends. In fact some of them I don't even know that well.

I love it when they're around and I'd take a bullet for any of them, and it gets to where if I thought any more highly of them, I'd think they were god. Altough if they pay alot attention to me, I will eventually get bored of them, although I still like them.

I get extremely jealous when they give their attention to someone else (who doesn't even want it). And I don't know why this is, can anyone help me or at least relate to me?

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  • Burrito_Dick
    13 years ago

    NO ONE CAN RELATE TO YOU.. YOU ARE WERID HAVE PROBLEMS AND MUST BE WHITE.

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  • PoisonFlowers
    14 years ago

    I know exactly what you mean. I don't know why I do this, but I can't help it. It's partly why I refrain from knowing people nowadays. I don't want to get that attached anymore. It tires me out.

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  • DoubleD
    14 years ago

    I can, sort of, relate to you.

    I fell for my girlfriend when we were just friends (and thus acted like regular friends), but ever since we started having a relationship she wants to see me whenever she can and kiss me whenever she can.
    She's very clingy, a (bad) feature I never experienced with her when we were still friends. It makes me uninterested, just like you, after a friend of yours starts giving you attention.

    When someone keeps distant from you, he/she makes others curious, that is why you want to hang out with them. Though, in the end that person may seem just like everyone else; Not the "God" you thought he/she was.

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  • t1234564
    14 years ago

    em... I am not like this but I have a friend who is.
    She's an only child and to her, her friends are her family.
    If I were you I would probably try to hang back a bit, that intensive energy is often seen as needy or at least strange by your friends and aquaintences.
    like some saying I cant quite remember the exact phrasing to...well it sums up as "People will be more interested in you if you dont wear your heart, head and everything else on your sleve"

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  • Dantevus
    14 years ago

    That is abnormal, but normal at the same time. The idea of getting bored of someone is very normal, and wanting the attention of those that do not give it to you is normal. The degree that your feeling it is rather abnormal but you will probably grow out of it. The feeling itself though is quite common.

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