I never see a white man with a black girl

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Just as my title suggests, do white guys ignore black girls? I know there are many turn-offs for both sides, but still.
I'm a true mutt, but my skin color is darker that white. I'm really into all kinds of guys, but my preferances lie in white guys. But mostly, the couples I see are black men with white women, white guys with white women, and black and white men with latinas. I think it is negative imagery a lot. Black girls are perceived to be loud, obnoxious, and full or harlotry. White guys are posed with arrogance. What's wrong with these pictures? Everything. I'm not loud or obnoxious, but i'm called a black girl because of my skin. Not all white guys are pricks with a stick up theirs (as a lot of people make them out to be). I really like white guys, and I've dated quite a few in my time, (I was truly too young), but now as I'm in college, I only spy guys looking at me from across the room, but that's it. And when I do, they look away fast. I want to know now is; why is it that black men and white women are always together, white men and women are together, etc etc, but black girls are left out of the pool? Do white guys like to "look don't touch" or is it "look but never ever touch that diseased freak"?
It now seems black guys don't even like black girls anymore. What's the deal with this? Is it normal to think this?

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  • baby_princess
    13 years ago

    Then open your freaking eyes sometime

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  • Friend2Squirrels
    13 years ago

    I've dated several black girls over the years. If 2 people are attracted to each other then great. It's what's inside a person and how they act that is more important than skin color.

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    • Qpmz
      11 years ago

      Like it or not throughout human history women have been a prize that were taken in raids on other tribes or were protected from being taken by your own kind. The leftists have successfully emasculated white men and empowered black men to the point that women see who the "winners" are and act accordingly. Talk about "love" and a few high profile exceptions mean nothing. Civilizations die when their woman cease to want to maintain them.

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  • Reaper13
    13 years ago

    Its because black girls get fed up with white guys way to much so whit guys dont want to touch them

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    I come from a predominantly white country and see more black men with white women than the other way around, but that's because there are more black men willing to travel here than black women.

    I barely distinguish between black and white but even if I did, I'd still find black women just as attractive as white women. I see the person a long time before I see the colour.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    People have strong preferences for things like body type, height, facial features, etc. Skin color is no different. It is not racism, it is just a lack of attraction. The pattern you see could very well be rooted in genetics, but there are plenty of white men with black women out there. I find there are certain races I am simply and wholly unattracted. I cannot explain why. One of them is my own race.

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    I don't really know what you're talking about I see dark girls with white bfs all the time

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I'm very attracted to black women, just as long as they don't ever say trifling... Major turn off

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    • CinnamonSummer
      12 years ago

      hahahahaha

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  • freebee
    13 years ago

    Because they don't want trouble with the brothers.
    Black girls are so strict with back guys the prefer White girls because they are easy pray
    On a wall on my way to work it says
    White puss easy meat.
    Sums it all up

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    • Katja
      13 years ago

      I've noticed that a whole lot. I've never once dated a black dude. Idk why, but I haven't. And I wouldn't be strict w/ anyone, unless need arises. But hey, nobody but my ex-bfs know that. (Plus I think black guys are intimidationg.)

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  • SeveralBirds
    7 years ago

    When it comes to stereotypes and portrayal in the media and stuff like that, black women tend to get the worst of it. They're portrayed as being aggressive, unfeminine, and generally undesirable. This impacts people a lot more than they like to claim it does. A disproportionate amount of people will claim they don't find black women sexually attractive because of their personal taste compared to any other gender/race combination, and while it might be a bit harsh to call them racist for that (I'm honestly not sure), it's definitely caused by racism. More specifically, it's caused by an unfortunate mix of racism, sexism, and classism. This is perpetuated in the media, and also spreads through negative stereotypes (that are typically based off of cliche media portrayals). Someone doesn't have to be openly racist to be exposed to and impacted by these ideas, and even if they don't claim to believe the stereotyping, it still tarnishes the way they view black women.

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  • pinkyloco25
    12 years ago

    I'm a white guy and personally I've only been with one black girl and she was half white anyway. I wouldn't say that I'm against it but I just think the reason to that is because I simply don't find a lot of black girls attractive (no offense). I've read somewhere that it's usually a race thing, hence why you see same-race couples more often. I've also heard that it's a cultural thing, black girls are just not encouraged to be dating white men. I think it has a double-consciousness affect to it. By double-consciousness, i mean the consciousness an African American has living in a white society (USA). From one view, he recognizes his heritage and his place in the world, from the other he looks at the world through white man's eyes. So in other words, a black girl with a white guy being looked at as degrading. Where a black guy with a white girl would be treated more rewarded. In a basic sense of captives (black people) turning (civil rights of the 60s) against their captures (white man).

    But all in all, am I against it? No? Do I find black girls attractive? Yes.

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  • gutta269
    12 years ago

    I guess every state is different cause you see it in Michigan all da time and my girl is a sista and I'm half white and asian

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  • tori
    13 years ago

    When my son was younger, his basketball coach is white. He was married to a black woman, who just so happened to be a pediatrician. They have 2 kids. I didn't think anything of it. I see it quite frequently where I live. They have since divorced. I don't know why. Anyway....normal for me to see it.

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  • password4
    13 years ago

    im white and i like and have been with alot of black girls.one reason is im always around black people and have no white firends.but i dont think theres many people like me.

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  • xxxMissFitxxx
    13 years ago

    Black looky looky men shout 'HELLO CHICKEN NUGGET!' at white girls... It means cheap white meat.

    I don't really see many black girls with white men.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Well, you know what? (I have alot of friends that are black) you guys are crazy!

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  • Uzzie101
    13 years ago

    I rarely see black girls with any man. Seriously, why?

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    • ShelteredAcademic
      12 years ago

      Perhaps it is sometimes due to class and educational differences so that some white men come across as an alien culture - however, in the upper echelons of society, black women often make a point of only dating black men to maintain their "race" identity while they rise socially.

      As a white guy who grew up in wealthy suburbia, I was never exposed to any non-white people - bar visits to the dirty old city, or a neighbour with a dark-skinned maid. But once I reached the later stages of puberty, I started being attracted to black girls, fantasizing whenever I could get a glimpse of a pretty black girl. I have never dated or even kissed a black girl and I am now turning 30, being rather secluded in white upper middle class surroudings, from white colleges to a PhD program in which the black girls exclusively dated black guys.

      Whenever I have tried to approach a black girl, it has ended in utter rejection. I went on dates, on which I was told that the girl only ever dated black guys and felt uncomfortable. I was often rejected even in the mildest approach, whereas white and asian women have approached and seduced me relentlessly for the past decade.

      I am athletic with broad shoulders, a little over 6 ft, have a Princeton PhD, and am coveted by attractive white and asian girls from good backgrounds. But black girls won't even become buddies, let alone consider dating me (including one with whom I was passionately and emotionally infatuated).

      It is rather depressing and I wonder whether I would even know how to pleasure a black woman, although I have supreme confidence with other women (insert penis joke). I may surmise that the barrier is rather the attitude of black women than the lack of interest of white men.

      Any advice is appreciated =)

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      • masturbatears
        10 years ago

        I feel extremely bad for you. Hopefully you get one life though.
        You should look for a certain type of black female. In fact, as one myself, (I being attracted to white guys) my sister told me, most of the time, many people would mainly date within their own race, due to, not racism, but more understanding/features.

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      • Uzzie101
        12 years ago

        It's probably more of a class thing than an ethnic thing. I bet you're not approached by girls from lower class backgrounds either?
        A lot of black people grow up in un-pivilaged background (it's not racist, it's the truth), so they might miss-interpret your upper-class mannerisms as snobbishness, thus rejecting you.

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  • Katja
    13 years ago

    Maybe its just my area lol. Around here, it is about 2:20 ratio.

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  • imthatguy
    13 years ago

    It's everywhere!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    First of all, why are you saying:
    "...Man with ...girl"?

    Are you talking about pedophiles having relationships with young black girls? If you are a teenager, you want to know why young white boys are not attracted to young black girls or if you are an adult, you would want to know why white men are not attracted to black women.

    Your complaint about not getting any sexual interest or come-ons from white males states that you are frustrated and befuddled. Have you tried online dating services? Some of them specialize in interracial matches.

    Finally, I would just state that almost all males fear being rejected by females and black females do have a reputation of being a bit "rough". That being said, I would say that you would have to make an extra; and perhaps undignified, effort to let these white males know that you are willing to play "Barbie" to their "Ken".

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