I never "love" my girlfriends

I am going to get straight to the point, i am a guy and have had numerous relationships with girls that people would call 10s and super hot but i never feel anything in the relationship.we usually break up and another brain dead chick gets attached to me and this process happens, what, 8 times a month? around more of less. I really dont know why girls like that are interested in me. im not white nor do i look like the wierd nude people on the beach tv shows when the camera gets all slow motion. i just want a relationship with a girl that i enjoy spending time with. previously i had asked out a person that i thought i would but she let me down. I guess its ok if everyone didnt say how ugly she was and what i was thinking. she was sweet, anyways is it normal not finding a girl you are into?

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  • AnemicRoyalty

    Really good connections can be hard to find when dating, and I think it's common to not feel in love with the other person. Some people enjoy dating simply as a way to get to know people and to have fun, but if you're looking for love, then maybe try to find a girl who's still attractive to you but who also has a good personality and common interests. It might take a few dates to figure out if you two are a good enough match for love to possibly develop.

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  • PandaShifter

    If you liked the sweet girl, why did you leave her? Because others thought you didn't look good with her? Next time when you think you've got a winner, don't let others try to persuade your heart otherwise for you. It isn't going to matter down the line whether the girl is a ten or a zero, becuase down the line we're all going to look like wrinkled up grapes anyway. When you're old you're going to have wanted someone you like talking to and get along with, not someone was once a pretty picture and turned out be as interesting a wet leaf. If she's nice and pretty while she's young then congrats, you've got the package deal. But never have I met a girl between 8 and 1o who didn't have a self-obsorbed personality. You should go find your sweet girl again and hope that she'll take you back.

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  • DiscoDuck

    Great then you will always be happy.

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  • screamdemon

    Well if u have had that many relationships and no luck yet maybe u should try guys lol hahahahaha! Suks for u!

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  • Florayfauna

    Who cares if the girls are supposed "10"s?! You clearly don't like them! So stop dating girls you don't like. The girls you do like are not going to be like the others and will take time. Get to know them, they take some wooing. And by wooing I don't mean just jump I and try to date them, befriend them first or they will think you're either patronizing them with your false efforts or a creeper. Got it? Lol

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  • soccer2

    I agree with omgmat

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  • LGforme

    It's normal not to find a girl into you, maybe "THEM" kinds girls are interested in you because there's something about you that attracts them. IDK but have fun. hope this helps

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