I need to stop addressing people as dude..

Dude, i've been doing this since shows like rocket power were on as a kid. I am a teenage female (former tom-boy) and still have this obsession with the phrase. i can't help it. i say t to my mom. i say it to inanimate objects. i call my boyfriend dude instead of babe or love or even his real name. i've even had somebody yell DUUUUDE in the hallway and turned around on cue. is this normal?

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  • mieoux

    Don't stop using dude, it's the most fun word ever.

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  • jfacfan14

    Same thing here. I call girls dude, my mom dude. I say dude as an expression of emotion. IDK its just a habbit. i kinda like it, hold on to it, gives you personality haha

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  • grimmis

    dude, i LOVED rocket power! lol

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  • Jen118584

    I say dude constantly. I can't help it, it's total habit. My dad used to call my brother and I "dude" and "dudette."

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  • gouchrobinson

    It's pretty normal, dude.
    I used to say dude when I was like 13. Now I say "buddy", "fella" and "mate" which are all just as bad.

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  • MrDarkcyde

    Totaly normal man, I call every one man (men, animals, girls, co-workers ect...) It does get a little confusing when refering to super heros tho like superman man. Your all gravy to me man. B-)

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  • tikiman163

    You're not old enough for that to be normal! Quit stealing my generations idioms! Stupid kids shows calling our phrases retro, and vintage. We invented that idiom, make up your own! That's what every other generation has done! Be original, or be doomed to repeat the failures of the past!

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  • CharlieGunn

    It's normal, but annoying. It's okay to say it once in awhile, but once you start saying it all the time, you start to sound like a bro or an unintelligent stoner. (Not to say that all stoners are unintelligent.)

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  • catsarenice123

    Haha I believe so. I have the same issue, actually. And I throw around "man" quite a bit. Whatever, though. We all have our catch-phrases.

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  • strangelittleguy

    Perfectly normal for a stoner. Can be controlled at will, practice on it.

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  • sweetlilwookims

    Didn't Waynes World cash in on the phrase 'Dude.' I like 'Chap' or 'Mate.' They work and don't seem so 'stonerish.'

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  • followthefoolish

    Dude, I TOTALLY think it's normal to say dude all the time. Although. . . I am a stoner. So, yeah. . . bye bye now.

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  • SteveVon

    If u really need to stop, example for a job?, just use an elastic around your wrist and snap it everytime and make sure it hurts that way saying it = pain to your brain, it will catch on overtime

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  • someonenotkelly

    DUDE!! ME TOO!

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  • moreoftheworst

    dude is an awesome word, i love saying dude, I also call my mom dude sometimes. either that or bro, which i hate

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  • LOUi_CUDi

    thiis kid called our teacher dude n he got suspended

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  • scubasarahi

    Lol I do that all the time and girls are always like,I'm a chick!And I'm all like,IDGAF U IS A DUUDDE!

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  • wuddeva

    My girlfriend does this and it still feels weird. If your boyfriend is like me, he will thoroughly appreciate an attempt at de-duding, for him at least. It's normalish, but a funny quirk.

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  • aeiou

    Same problem here, Brad. Certified female and I call everyone, Brad which is an abbreviation for Brother. Lol but true.

    I guess we're normal.

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  • minipeewee

    i hate people don't like when i say dude.....

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  • bobthejellyfish

    dude i do this too!!

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  • DUDE same ---ex tomboy always dude and whenever i walk into class the "class clown" always yells out HEYYYY DUDDDE then winks.... but i cant help but answer back..dude whats ur problem :D and i knows as-dude whered my car :) it may be long but its my nickname

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  • dfusa96

    OMG DUDE SAMEZZZZ

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  • CountryRoads

    Lol mirelurker. I was going to say something similar.

    Stop being such a moron.

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  • Dude

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  • Yesh. Imma tom boy. And i call EVERY1 dude. Its so normal dude. Go with the flow
    Man. Its awesome

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  • takeiteasy12

    Yeah, i say it all the time also. I try to stop but its hard. "man" i say way too much also.

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  • Uzzie101

    It's OK when americans say it. Everyone else, get a fucking life.

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  • dudewithoutaclue

    I've been told I use " dude" a lot too. Its a pointless habit, so just let it go.

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  • kittkatt

    ha ha, I do it too and people are usually really thrown by it! I also have an issue with saying 'awesome' all the time, I can't stop myself! Problem is, I'm in my 20s, female and Australian!

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  • Fridge

    Normal, I use man a lot even to chicks...

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  • Ra1l

    "Dude" is such a nineties word. The Dude.
    As a man, I don't like it when my significant other refers to me as dude. It lacks affection, and makes me feel like any other random idiot (that dude has a sweet mullet!)
    Like totally dude, we need to let that word die.

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  • germanstallion123

    dude, i'm 17 and i've been doing the same thing. I've even started saying dude to my mom and she's like "what" and I'm like dude.. chill..

    Nahh, just fuckin' with ya. I don't type like a preteen girl, but I do say dude a lot, dude.

    Now if only I could find some Vegemite...

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  • no joke. I know this GRown lady who always says duuuuuude and it is very un ladylike and stuiped as hell so do us all a favor and sttop.

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  • godot

    not normal. i do it too though

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  • michiegirl

    Everyone has a word. I use cowboy or bucko.

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  • yeah i do it do, not really the best thing for someone like me to say to people.

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  • dice

    whats up dude it's ok

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  • musicislife101

    dude! i always used to watch rocket power and i am too a former tom boy. i think its normal but my friends say ill probably grow out of it one day

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  • shakenbake855

    im 25 and still have this problem it sucks

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  • 13thpipeline

    It's normal for teenagers.

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  • NeoFalcon

    It's normal for Californians.

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  • yeah thats totally normal... then again, im a guy....

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  • jessejamesnightlife

    Funny. I not only say "dude", i say "man" a lot as well. Or "fool" but only sometimes. I'm a chick also. "Oh my god" is one i use a lot. Man i need to stop that.

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  • oOAppleOo

    Lol I say 'Dude' alot... It's not that bad unless you're calling a girl dude lol.. But yeah. Totally normal

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  • brian987987

    whats wrong dude

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  • enki

    Totally normal dude, i'm 23 and still say dude and man, infact when i even use them while texting. I run a hardware store and my customers actually think its a freindly gesture so ive never found a need to stop.

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  • xoSushi

    Haha, sometimes I get moments where I obsess over a word (it used to be babe, now it's bruh/brah) but I eventually got over it. Maybe you're just having a moment so it'll pass. Don't try to do it too much though or your friends will become incredibly annoyed and stop hanging out with you.

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  • thewarrior

    i used to say fuck and shit and all diferente swear words, i didnt actually know i woz doing it, somebody pointed it out that i cant say a frase widoute a swear word, i woz like fuck, shes right, i dont even no if i stil do it, i think i still do it though. you should be fine if ya stick to dude..

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  • mirelurker

    Oh look how cool I am everyone! I'm a FORMER TOM BOY and call everyone "dude". I like to label myself and go against social norms.

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