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I'm a virgin and I don't know what to expect the first time just please makes and females give me advice on what to be prepared for and what to expect.
Use a condom. It might hurt the first time, you might bleed, grab a towel. Also be prepared for the awkward cleanup and possible disappointment. The first time isn't that amazing but it's special if it's with the right person. You're not obligated to have sex in a relationship, only have sex if you're ready and he's a decent guy and if you're in love.
It is Not normal to bleed, that only happens when you're not lubricated enough. Take it slow and remember to have lots of foreplay and both be thoroughly turned on before having sex.
I agree use a condom and yes, make it someone special. For me it hurt so much the first time we had to stop and my boyfriend (who is now my husband) held me for a while and I decided I wanted to try again. It hurt a lot but it will feel great once you've done it a few times.
Don't have sex, because you will get pregnant and die! Don't have sex in the missionary position, don't have sex standing up, just don't do it. Okay, promise? Okay, now everybody take some rubbers. - Coach Carr
Always use protection. Ideally, your lover should also use some too.
If your lover has a genital infection/STD that is visible, don't have sex with them. If you've had sex with them prior to the discovery, get tested just in case.
Most importantly of all, only have sex with someone if they really mean something to you. Don't settle for otherwise just because you want sex.