I need some serious help..please read my story below..

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My math teacher and I are so close, we have lunch together hug frequently and get along very well.. I am a female as is she and we just have this mother daughter connection I don't have with anyone else not even my real mother.. I often get jealous when she helps other students or does something with them, I have kicked over the hallways garbage can because she hugged somebody else I got lunch detention though because I didn't have a legit reason but, she Is always on my mind I think about her all the time no matter what I'm doing.. She knows some of my history and she really helps me through hard times, I can barely go the weekend without crying over her, she is my biggest motivator, she makes me want to get good grades because I want her to be proud of me..I have no idea what im going to do over the summer or even spring break.. she is my life literally she is in my mind, heart, dreams everything. I love her and im not sure I can get over her when I move on to the next grade..

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You should work on motivating yourself instead of relying on someone else's influence. You sound as if you would be easily brainwashed or manipulated.

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    • flawlessbabe_xoxo
      10 years ago

      You're probably right, but how can I just stop being motivated and hung up on her and start motivating myself.???

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        By building up your own self confidence. I wish I could be more specific. You got those grades on your own, the teacher didn't do the work, you did. You're going to have a big adjustment period as you age, hopefully it goes smoothly.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    I guess that kind of crush would be normal for a 12 year old. You absolutely know you are being unrealistic and childish here, so get a grip on yourself and go out and make some friends your own age. Leave this poor woman to do her job. You do realize that there are probably 20 little girls just like you, every year, that go through exactly the same thing with this poor woman? Leave her alone and go talk to your Mom; that's HER job.

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    • flawlessbabe_xoxo
      10 years ago

      I'm not 12 and I have friends...And I know there aren't "20 little girls just like me" because know one even can began to no how highly I think of her, she got me something for valentines day, no one else, she got me something for my birthday, no one else, we hug between every class and NO ONE ELSE DOES!! She has been divorced for 13 years, I'm sure she doesn't mind my company so I wont
      leave the poor woman alone" firstly because it hurts a little deep down in that heart which you seem not to have.. Oh and my MOM doesn't want to talk, don't ask why im not talking about that on here, it's personal..

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      • thegypsysailor
        10 years ago

        Now that you've explained it to me like that, I understand completely. This teacher is obviously out of her mind if she is buying you presents and hugging you. Both are, if not totally illegal, completely out of bounds for a student/teacher relationship. If I knew about this or one of my children was you, then I would report this teacher and see that she never taught again.
        Being a child, you are the victim here, so I don't hold you as responsible as I do the teacher. But still, you do already have a mother, and it would behoove you to try and work on that relationship. After all, she will still be your mother, long after you have forgotten this childish crush.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          Will you adopt me papa? Gypsydaddy im coming home!

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          • thegypsysailor
            10 years ago

            To err is human, to arg is pirate.
            Welcome aboard matey. Arg.....

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            • [Old Memory]
              10 years ago

              ARGGGGGGGG! Whats my initiation, what must I do to come aboard your ship papa?

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        • Avant-Garde
          10 years ago

          We have raised such a good son. :)

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        • flawlessbabe_xoxo
          10 years ago

          We don't only hug like in private the principal and other teachers and students have witnessed us hugging, it's not like a lovey dovey hug it's like a see you after class hug...I really trust her and she is always here for me. And it's not like she bought me anything big, on valentines day she got me a chocolate bear and for my birthday she got me a perfume from bath&body works.. She has called me "The daughter she never had" and i'm not going to report her for that, she lives all by herself and her only child lives thousands of miles away in Germany, with a family of his own.. I feel bad for her sometimes, she is such a sweet ol' lady and I wouldn't trade her for anything.. I mean you must not completely understand if you think that I am the victim and she is like taking advantage of me, like if you may or may not of read we are both females I would see where you were coming from if I was male...

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    I can't directly comment to you as I am using the app.

    Personally, if it were me, I would go see a therapist in private practice setting as opposed to a school therapist. School therapists are of course free. Whereas a regular therapist usually isn't. Psychiatrists are usually very expensive to see and they don't believe in treating the patient as a whole, unlike therapists. Instead, they mainly care about writing prescriptions. In terms of confidentially, I don't think that really exists with a school therapist and considering the fact that your situation involves a teacher, she'll more than likely be told of the situation.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    You need professional counselling if you have been carrying on like that and being completely unreasonable over such small things.

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    • flawlessbabe_xoxo
      10 years ago

      Would my school counselor be okay? Or should I see someone else??

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  • sweetheart104
    10 years ago

    I've been in a similar situation. Feel free to private message me about it. I totally know how you feel. :)

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    http://m.helpguide.org/articles/emotional-health/psychotherapy-therapist-counseling

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