I need some advice

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So theres this female that i've been interested in for quite some time, however when I met her and realized I was interested we were both dating people. I wanted to break up with my partner for a bit but I didn't know how to do it. This female had been conversating about liking me but it was a little weird idk if she really meant it. Anyway some time passes and I end up breaking up with my partner, she hadn't been talking to me for a while but I was still kinda interested. Howver I was beating myself up for liking her due to her already having a partner. Eventually we started talking again and she ended up breaking up with her partner. She told me that she was gonna do it and that she would be real sad for quite some time. So I didn't bother for obvious reasons. This happened about 2 months ago and she does seem better. However, she's sending mixed messages now. She'll say I love you but in a way where I can't tell if it's a really good friend way or a "Hey I love you" sort of thing. She also asked me if I still did love her and I said yes, she simply replied with "Ok" and that is when she started saying I love you, regularly. I'm not sure if I should go ahead and ask her out, or if she has the idea that we already are. P.S, she also has been talking about people she thinks are cute, but specifying that she doesn't inherently like them as a person. What shall I do, Oh internet

Nah she aint interested 5
Go ahead and get with her LOSER 5
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  • charli.m
    5 years ago

    My advice would be tbat referring yo a womam as "this female" is generally something that puts women off. It makes you sound like a chauvinist prick. I'm not saying you are. That's just the impression using the term "female" like that gives.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Lol, yeah I just didn't know what to refer to her as

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      • charli.m
        5 years ago

        Yeah I get you.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    It's difficult to love a person at arms reach. What you describe as love is lust. I would date her a bit and see if love is actually on the menu.

    Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    "I'm not sure if I should go ahead and ask her out, or if she has the idea that we already are."

    Say what?

    Maybe things have changed in this glorious new age we're in, but back in my day, people were generally pretty clear about whether or not they were actually going out with someone because they were, like, either going out with them or they weren't.

    But I suppose dating someone without ever actually being alone with them in a social context does make life simpler in many ways.

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