I need relationship help

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Basically this is not a 'is it normal' but I really need some help with something...
Basically I met a boy on Tinder and we have been speaking for ages and I really really like him but he has just asked me to FaceTime him and we have never done that before and I don't know how to tell him I aren't ready for that.. I have anxiety and it makes me really nervous that he wants to FaceTime incase it is awkward or we run out of conversation... How can I tell him?

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  • Cocomilktitties
    8 years ago

    Meet in person.

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  • TerenceTheTiger
    8 years ago

    just tell him you are not ready for that. Simple.

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      Good answer, RAWR!

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    • Grimmfan
      8 years ago

      Agreed

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    Just hold a pillow, if you start the feel nervous during the video chat then just squeeze it.

    Most likely he wants to video chat to see if you're being honest about who you are in appearance, and just look at your face. However, if he starts getting inappropriate, like telling you to take off your panties or some shit, then he may only want sex.

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  • DavefromAutoglass
    8 years ago

    Sorry, but Tinder is mostly for people who don't want a relationship and only want to bang, there's no place for you there and he probably is just goin to ask you to strip or something, dunno

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  • Livellovelife
    8 years ago

    Just do it send picks of ur face first

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  • worriedgirlhere
    8 years ago

    Lol so I'm going to tell you a little story of mine.

    One evening, I decide to browse through Tinder. At this point, I'm pretty much over it because most of the guys are just looking to hook up. I happen to stumble upon a guy who seems decent looking so I figure, why not? We match and then talk for hours. He wants to meet in person.
    Keep in mind: I am an incredibly shy person who has never met up with any guy on Tinder, let alone dated someone. But for some reason, something told me to do it.

    We actually met up the next day. We went to a coffee shop, talked for a few hours and then walked around the complex. It was kind of an amazing time.
    This all happened a little over 2 months ago and since then we have already had so much fun together as a couple. I'm so glad that I decided to take that leap of faith.

    I'm aware that this sounds incredibly cheesy, but really what I'm trying to tell you is that if you feel like you guys have a connection when you're talking, I think you should try and give it a shot. Sure, you might meet up with him and you might not think he's as great as you thought. But you won't know unless you try. :)

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  • shannonapril
    8 years ago

    Lol okay

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Since I'm not exactly sure what you are talking about, I'm guessing he wants to meet in person?
    Here's my best advice and what I've spent my life trying live by; "Dream as if you'll live forever and live as if you'll die tomorrow."

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      He does want to meet at some point but he wants to FaceTime me tonight and I am scared

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        I'm lost. I do not know what facetime is, then?

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  • thegypsvsailor
    8 years ago

    You are ugly and pathetic and no one will ever love you

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