I need relationship advice

Take one day at a time. Life is a battle in itself, to add someone else into said life makes it either twice as bad or twice as fun. I have to admit, my first lasted about a year. Not good advice there. My second one though, is going on 27 years and still going strong. Now to give perspective, my first marriage, unbeknownst to me, was one of convenience for the girl I married. We got married, I bought a house, bought her a new car, we even had a son together. We were living on the west coast. I had moved there from the east coast just a few years prior. I met this girl, fell madly in love with her, got married and all the other stuff. About a year into the marriage, she starts getting phone calls from another dude. I ask who, she says oh it's just an old friend. Well one day she packs up the car and our son and says she needs some time to sort things out. She leaves, doesn't tell me where she is going or when she will be back. Everybody in her family that I ask, will tell me nothing. I'm at work 3 weeks later and she tells me that all my stuff is in the yard, she doesnt love me anymore. I go pick up my stuff, drive a spike through my front door, that the locks gave been changed on, and gang my wedding ring on it. I take my stuff to a girls house that I knew before I met her and moved in there. She found that out, and came begging me to come back. I do, for a while. One day while she is gone off with her mother, I pack up the car, brand new mustang, drive to the closest airport, buy me a ticket back home and leave a note on the car door with the signed title in the seat that says, if you want ut, it's yours. When I get to Chicago, I call her and she asks where I am, I tell her I'm gone and then where the car is, and gang up. Never did find out about the car. Did send child support to my son until the state if Oregon write to tell me that he had been adopted. I had found out through friends if ours that she had gone off to be with her ex, who had just got out of prison and had planned on divorcing me anyway so I just beat her to the punch. Now my wife and I have 2 great kids, a grandchild, and I haven't heard from that bimbo, in over 25 years! Only you and the one you are with can make it work, no matter what anybody else says, only you two can make it work.

Your in the wrong place for what your looking for.

It can't be done on a permanent basis.
Ya pays yer money and ya takes yer chances.
People are basically assholes.