I need relationship advice

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Ok so I'm a senior in high school. I lost my virginity like Sophmore year and the guy I did it with still text me every once in a while and we just hook up. I know he doesn't ever want a relationship with me, and he only text me late at night when he wants to do stuff. But I am so attracted to him so I always give in. I've been doing that a lot recently with multiple guys and I just actually want a relationship but it seems like there is no guys wanting a relationship with me. Idk what to do???

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I think you are mistaking sex for affection on the part of the guys.
    If you want a relationship, try finding a guy who has more to him than his looks. Good looking young boys basically only want to get as many girls in bed as they can, and don't give a damn about anything else.
    I'm sure there are plenty of guys who'd be happy to spend time with you and get to know you as a person, without your having to have sex with them. Those are the guys you want to be with.

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    Well, quite frankly you should not act like you are the kind of girl that can only offer sex.

    There´s two ways to do this: Either don´t have sex until you know the person better.

    Or start as friends with benefits, this way you wont get disappointed.

    Also; A lot of people misunderstand FRIENDS with benefits, you don´t cuddle and kiss this person. If someone cuddle and kiss me I assume there´s more going on than just sex.

    People need to be more honest with one another.

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago

      Sex without cuddling and kissing? I wouldn't bother in that case

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      • (s)aint
        8 years ago

        I just feel that, to me it´s the cuddling and kissing that makes me develop feelings.
        If it´s JUST sex you should not cuddle and kiss the person outside of the sexual activities and act as if you fancy them more than you really do.

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        • Ellenna
          8 years ago

          I've tried sex without kissing and cuddling and it was very good sex and plenty of it, but ultimately unsatisfying and even lonely

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          • (s)aint
            8 years ago

            Oh true true. I managed to have a FwB like that for close to two months, then I felt like something was missing. But I did not want him like that at all though.

            His dog was really affectionate though, she and I cuddled instead, haha

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Why would they give you a relationship when they can just get in your pants without the commitment. It's your body and you can do whatever you want but most guys will just want sex from you especially if you just give it to them so easily.

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  • Steven3,0
    8 years ago

    You're a hooker? That's okay, so am I. Since no one wants a relationship with you, you must be quite ugly. But no way in hell can you be uglier than me, over that I'm completely gay as well. Let me tell you what you should do, you should kook up with you siblings like I hook up with mine...

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    • MaryLouiseCatwhiskers
      8 years ago

      That's just terrible advice.

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    • flyingnostalgia
      8 years ago

      shut up brotherfucker.

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      • Steven3,0
        8 years ago

        You're just jealous, aren't you?

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        • flyingn0stalgia
          8 years ago

          Yes, my brother is really hot just like my dad. but sadly they don't find me attractive because I am too fat.

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