I need help improving my sexual sensitivity
So I think about sex a lot and feel horny almost all the time, but my it still takes so much work to get my cock hard and then to get off. Women I sleep with feel like they aren't attractive because I don't get hard and I hate to send the wrong message.
It's also very hard to orgasm with just vanilla sex. Seriously kinky shit gets me off easily in porn or in real life but most girls aren't into it. Vanilla sex just doesn't excite me as much as I wish it did. Is there anything I can do to remedy this? I have only masterbated a handful of times in the last few months and it was to pictures of my girlfriend, not kinky shit which was on purpose to try and not strengthen the association between kinky shit and pleasure.
Has anyone had problems like this before?