I need guy help

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Ok so I've been dating this guy for almost 5 months, but we've known each other for about two years and I really honestly love him. BUT we're in an online-long distance relationship. I know that sounds horrible and I never would have thought I would do something like date someone online, but I really do love him. He's amazing, he makes me so freakin happy. So here's the problem. I found a post of his about a month ago saying that he's been dating some Christian girl for almost a year now. There's 2 things wrong with that:

1) I'm not Christian
2) We haven't been dating for a year

I honestly don't think he would cheat on me, because he is so strongly against it. But it would be extremely easy for him to cheat on me. I haven't brought it up to him, mainly because I'm afraid of what he'll say. What should I do? And I sorta have another problem. I've been meeting a lot of new people this year in school and I think some guy might like me. I really only think of him as a friend, but everyone else says we would make an awesome couple. A lot of my friends don't like him cause they think he's annoying, but I think he's freakin hilarious. I don't know what to do about him. We just met each other this year, but we're like best friends now. He's in a lot of my classes and we're always making each other laugh. It really shouldn't even bother me because I have a boyfriend, but, I don't know. It's just something I think about. Any advice?
Is this normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    He's definitely having lots of sex. Without you. All the time.

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  • mikey50
    15 years ago

    I think you should keep your online relationship ONLY as a friend and let nature take it's course with other guys you meet. You sound too young to be in a comitted relationship!

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  • beforeifeel
    10 years ago

    Time to just move on.

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  • abstract_openmind
    14 years ago

    I completely understand why you think you hate humans ive experienced the same feelings. Youre not the only one who can notice the faults and imperfects in humanity.

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  • thisisodd
    15 years ago

    theres nothing wrong with meeting people online but if youve been with them for 2 years and still havnt met then it doesnt really seem like a relationship, its all fantasy.

    if you were to have met the guy and seen him for what he really is, not what he is on a chatline then i think you'd know who to choose, because it seems that this guy at your school is a pretty alright guy. and you know that for a fact, this other guy no matter what hes told you online, u dont know what hes doing while typing to you, he could have 5 other girls in the same position as you

    just dont trust too many online people, not all of them are bad, i met my gf online and were stronger than ever

    just be careful online

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    • Chick2048
      15 years ago

      Thank you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    You sound pretty young so look - your "on-line" relationship is not real. Quit pretending otherwise. Meet real boys. Have real relationships. Have fun.

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  • cheeryspider
    15 years ago

    Despite of how it feels, you can never, ever know who people truly are by communicating with them online. It is too easy for him (like you said yourself!) to cheat, and probably he has 5 other "girlfriends" like you. He is player. The boy in your class is REAL and right there for whenever you feel like hanging out, right there to hold hands, right there if there is an emergency, and there for everything that comes with a relationship! Dump this cyber freak and enjoy yourself with someone who cares for you more than in an e-mail or chat!

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  • jack126
    15 years ago

    Hi, well... you should find out what is really going on with your online boyfriend. Ask him, I know you fear his answer but do it.

    First things first, talk to him and clear up your situation with him first. Then you can act. Cheers!

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  • Ritsudono
    15 years ago

    for me, you should ask your online bf first, but, if his answer does not satisfy you, go together with the one you met in real life.

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  • sarah8362
    15 years ago

    online boys gotta go-theres too many things that you dont know because youre not there with him and hes not there with you-too many experiences youre missing because of that.
    see how it goes with the funny man ;)

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  • Dominicana92
    15 years ago

    i had one of thoese...well i agree with archer if he gets mad you know....

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  • archer954
    15 years ago

    To be honest, it sounds like your boyfriend is playing you AND the other girl. I'd ask about it and see how he responds. If he gets angry, then you can almost be sure he has been dating two people. I'm a guy, so I can tell you that guys usually get defensive and try to blame the other person in this situation

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