I need an advice

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Last Christmas I met with my cousin and his friends to celebrate. We drunk a lot and I started to kiss the best friend of my cousin. I knew that he really liked me, because my cousin told me that before. But also cousin told his friends not to think about me, because of the age difference ( his friend 10 years older than me). After that he carried me home and asked my phone number. But after that he never called. I think that my cousin told him not to. I was thinking about this friend for a very long time, but then forgot. Last week I was on the wedding of my cousin and saw this friend again. My feelings woke up and he was staring at me for the whole evening. But he didn`t do anything again. I`m so upset now, crying all night long. I don`t know if I need to do something.

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  • Crusades
    10 years ago

    How old are you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      21 and he is almost 31

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  • dickwashington
    10 years ago

    you should tell him how you feel why wait on him to make all the moves

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Thanks, maybe I will do that

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Why do people say I need "an" advice?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      sorry I`m not native english-speaker

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        I see. Well, anyways, you two are at different points in your lives. You are 21 and probably just starting to build your own individual identity and independence while he has more than likely already established his set ways and wants to settle down if he is 31. I don't know just my opinion.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    he carried you home?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I`m not english native speaker, I didn't` know how to say that he took me home

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        oh ok, when you see him again smile and take it from there

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    How old are you? Older than 18? Go for it!

    Younger than 15? No.

    In between these two? Meh, you guys are in different stages of your life ... it MIGHT work, but chances are that it wont.

    Talk to your cousin and ask straight out?

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      I'll kick you in the nuts..................

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      • (s)aint
        10 years ago

        Hahahhaha xD

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I`m 21 :)
      Thank you for advice!

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      • (s)aint
        10 years ago

        Go for it!

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  • Skitzo1
    10 years ago

    Sounds like he got cock blocked or vag-blocked. In which case, you should pursue and initiate conversation with your cousins friend, or confront your cousin about it. Usually the gentlemen pursues the girl, but alas, your gonna have to wear your ovaries on the outside and get in there girl!

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  • skybum
    8 years ago

    Well the age difference isn't far off (10 years) for now but will become a factor later on. So go for and take the ride as long as you.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    Hey, remember he is 10 years older. If it was supposed to happen it probably would have. Now, put away your crying towel and think about others that may enjoy your being available to talk to and be with without a tear in you eye.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Thank you!

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