I moved on, but i have no interest in other girls?

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Hi,
I moved on from my gf 1 year before. I am not worried about her now.
But the problem is that even after 1 year I couldn't find anther girl. (actually I have no problem with it now, but what if it continue in future also?)
I am afraid that that feeling has died inside me. And whenever I see a strong romantic scene in movies I remember my ex.
I don't want to go back to her. I just want to love anther girl!
(NB: I have a small regret that I cheated her)

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  • Murasaki
    13 years ago

    You my friend, have definitely NOT moved on from her. In my opinion, unless you have a mutual despise for them and even if they came at you begging you shove them off, then you haven't gotten over your ex. I don't believe ex's are supposed to be friends or amicable. So no, you haven't gotten over your ex. You think you have but you're in denial.

    You're in this state now of wondering if there still is a chance with your ex (don't deny it), if you are attractive or if you should wait for a while. It's tricky.

    Well as the saying goes, girls suck the life out of you. Even if you ARE over your ex (which you aren't) it can take a while before you mind can even begin to grapple with the possibility of being with another one of those soul suckers.

    The best thing to do is piss your ex off as much as you can so she does something which makes you see there's no chance. Or just apologize for being a dick and cheating on her and move on. I wouldn't suggest going into another relationship right now - don't worry, being out of the game for a while won't affect your future chances - and truly get over your ex before considering another relationship.

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  • gako
    13 years ago

    It's yout fault for cheating on her! Asshole! Hope karma bites you right in the ass! Literally!

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  • harrypotters
    13 years ago

    It sounds like you have not moved on from her and still feel guilty about, messing it up but you are just in denial

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